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Sefer Chafetz Chayim               םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Rechilut         תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Vav                         'ד ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


 that  gossip,  even  if  the  speaker  has  the  same  authority  as  two    ארָקְנ לכוֹרו ,רוּסאדּ ,רֵתוֹי רבדּה תא םיִעְטמ אוּה םִא
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               ,ןוֹעְמִשִּׁמ ןיִבֵמ אוּה םִא )רמוֹל ךְירִצ ןיא( יֵעבִּמ אלו .הז רוּבֲע
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               ,אוּה תמא םִא :וֹלאְשׁ ןוֹעְמִשֶּׁשׁ ,ןוֹגכּ( הזבּ קפַּתּסִמ ןידֲַעֶשׁ
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 believe the speaker, that is only when the victim knows the speaker    הלּגי אלֹ ןכּ םגּ אמָתסִבּ וּלִּפא אלּא ,וֹל תוֹלּגל וֹל רוּסא
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 very  well,  meaning,  that  the  “victim”  is  very  familiar  with  the
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 personality  of  the  speaker  (12),  that  he  never  lies  and  does  not    ,ןבוּארְ לע וֹבִּלבֶּשׁ האנִשּׂה רֵתוֹי קיזחמ אוּה וירָבדְִבּ יִכּ ,וֹל
 exaggerate,  and  the  victim  is  so  confident  of  the  truthfulness  of
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 the speaker and he believes him in this regard and in fact always    היה םִאֶשִּׁמ ,םינְשׁ יִפִּמ עמְשׁיֶּשׁכּ ,רֵתוֹי וֹלצא לבּקְַתיֶּשׁ
 believes him in whatever he says (13) with the same authority as two    הבירְִמִל ןכּ םגּ וּאוֹביֶּשׁ םיִמעְפּ םגו .דחא יִפִּמ קרַ עֵמוֹשׁ
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 (Please see the following Hagahah).  But if this victim does not   .שׁדחֵמ תוּליִכרְה ררֵוֹעְתנֶּשׁ ,ינֵשּׁה הז ידֵי לע
 always believe the speaker in all other regards, just in this regard
 because he relishes and enjoys the gossip and Lashon Hara, and so
 this victim now rationalizes and decides that the speaker must be    לע הבוּשְׁתּ תוֹשֲׂעל אבוּ וֹרבח לע ליגּרְִהו רבע םִאו .ג
 telling the truth and he believes him just as he would believe two   ַ  ָ  ַ  ָ  ֵ  ֲ  ַ  ִ  ְ  ַ  ָ  ְ
 witnesses; obviously this is forbidden.  In fact, contrary to this, the    סיּפיו וּנּמִּמ הליִחְמ שֵׁקּביֶּשׁ דע הנקַּתּ וֹל ןיא )ד( ,וֹנוֲֹע
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 falls into the category of those people who believe Lashon Hara and    ואלּה לע רבע רֶשׁא לע ,םוֹקמּל הבוּשְׁתּ הֶשֲׂעי םגו ,וֹתוֹא
 Mekor Hachayim  Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 235  .םייּח םימ ראבִבּ
 Rechilut.
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               ןוֹשׁלבּ וֹמכּ אוּה וינידּ יֵטרְָפּ לכו "ךָימּעבּ ליִכרָ ךְלֵת אלֹ"דּ
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               ןיּעו םָשׁ ןיּע ,ב"י ףיִעס 'ד ללכִבּ 'א קלחבּ ליֵעל ערָה
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 RK6/7.  All this, however, was relevant only during the epoch of
 the Talmud.  But nowadays all Authorities are in agreement (15)
 that nobody can claim they believe someone because they are as
 authoritative as two witnesses testifying in Beit Din and that he
 never lies about anything.  Therefore in no circumstance can the
 victim believe the “testimony” \ “gossip” of this speaker although
 he can suspect the veracity of the speaker’s story.  Apart from this,
 it is improbable that one could comply with all of the conditions in
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 the    and 6  halachot.  From this you can see how many people
 make  a  mistake  in  this  regard,  that  they  are  very  careful  not  to
 speak Lashon Hara or Rechilut and not to believe it if they hear
 it being spoken by others but they will believe it if it is spoken by
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