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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפס
                                Hilchot Esurei Rechilut                                                              תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
                                       Kelal Vav                                                                       'ד ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


             their father or mother or wife because they feel these people would
             most certainly never lie to them.  But this is a very serious mistake
             because it makes no difference who is conveying the gossip (16).
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             Please see above in the first part of this sefer, in the 8  Kelal, the
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             1   halacha and additionally further on in this part of the sefer, in                                        'ד ללכּ
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             the    Kelal, the    halacha.
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                                                                                                      רבדַּה  םֶצֶע  םִא  ןינִעל  תוּליכרְדּ  אנידּ  רַאֹבי  וֹבּ
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             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 237
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                                                                                                      וֹבוּ ,הזַּה ןוָֹעֶה ןֵקַּתי דַציכו ,וֹרוּפּס אלֹבּ וֹל הלּגּתנ
             RK6/8.  This law, that it is forbidden to believe gossip, applies                                           .םיפיִעס 'ג
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             even if the gossip is conveyed unintentionally, in some unrelated
             context (17), meaning that the victim realizes the speaker had no
             intention to incite a dispute with a fellow Jew and just unthinkingly
             those words came out of his mouth.  All of the additional details of
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             this law were explained above in the first part of this sefer, in the                 ,שׁדח רבדּ וֹל הלּגְמ ןיא םִא וּלִּפא אוּה תוּליִכרְה רוּסִּא .א
                Kelal, the 9  halacha, in the context of Lashon Hara.  And these
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             details apply equally here as well, that it is forbidden to believe                   הָשׂע וֹא ,ויָתוֹדוֹא ינוֹלְפּ רבּדּ ןכו ןכ יִכּ ,עדַי אוּה םגֶּשׁ
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             gossip.                                                                               ןנוֹבְּתִה אלֹ וֹמצעבּ אוּהֶשׁ קרַ ,וֹל עגוֹנ אוּהֶשׁ ,ינוֹלְפּ ןינִע
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             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 239                                                        הזּה לכוֹרהו )א( ,הזבּ הלוע הָשׂעֶשׁ ,ינוֹלְפּ לע הזבּ ןידֲַע
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                                                                                                   וֹבּ עגפוּ ,ןידּבּ ביּח ןבוּארְ אציֶּשׁ ןוֹגכּ( הז לע וֹל ררֵוֹעְמ
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      Mekor Hachayim  to him as being true, that Plony did something to him or said such-          ,ךְָתוֹא וּנדּ הפי אלֹ :ןוֹעְמִשׁ וֹל רמאו ,ךְכו ךְכּ יִתּביּחְתנ
             RK6/9.    If  the  victim  is  aware  of  circumstantial  evidence  that
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                                                                                                   :ןבוּארְ ביִשׁהו ?ךָנידּבּ הָשֲׂענּ המ :וֹתִּאֵמ לאָשׁו ןוֹעְמִשׁ
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             gives credibility to the gossip, that points to the gossip conveyed
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             and-such about him, then regarding the issue of whether or not that
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             circumstantial evidence is a sufficient basis for believing it, please
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                                                                                                   סינכהל הזבּ םרֵוֹגֶּשׁ ,שׁדח ןינִע דלוֹנ וֹרוּבּדּ ידֵי לעֶשׁ ןויכּ
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             through 1   halachot because there, with G-d’s help, we explained
             all of the relevant details.  But in order to make things easier for the
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             reader, I will summarize here what I expressed over there.  These
             five conditions must be fulfilled:
             (1) The  circumstantial  evidence  must  substantiate  the  gossip  as
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                 being  true  (18)  with  no  grounds  for  judging  him  favorably                ןהֵמ דחא רבעו ,םינְשׁ ינְפִבּ ןוֹעְמִשׁ תא הנּגּ ןבוּארְ םִא .ב
                 based on what he said or did, because if there was a side to                      ןכ יִפּ לע ףא ,ןוֹעְמִשׁל רבדּה תא הלּגו תוּליִכרְ רוּסִּא לע
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                 judge him favorably, what was the point of the circumstantial
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                 evidence substantiating the gossip as being true?  Even if it was                 ןכֶּשׁ לכו ,ןוֹעְמִשׁל הז רבדּ תוֹלּגל אלֶֹּשׁ )ג( ,ינֵשּׁה רהזּי
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