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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפס
                                Hilchot Esurei Rechilut                                                              תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
                                       Kelal Vav                                                                       'ה ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


             and that is why he remained silent.  Perhaps Plony accepted upon
             himself to remain silent and thereby placed himself among those
             who are shamed yet do not shame others, who absorb disgrace and
             do not answer back (6).

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             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 221
             RK6/4.  Understand clearly that it is forbidden to believe gossip
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             was commonly circulating throughout society (7), that Plony said                         לכבּ וֹתָעיִמְשׁוּ תוּליכרְ תלבּקַ רוּסִּא רַאֹבי הז ללכבּ
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             something about the victim or did such-and-such to him.  Despite                         ,הזַּה אְטֵחַה ןֵקַּתי דַציכּ ,הזבּ לַשׁכנ םִא םגו ,ויָטרָפּ
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             its common knowledge, it is forbidden to believe it or to conclude
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             an opinion that it must be true.  Even if the future well being of                                         .םיפיִעס 'ז וֹבוּ
             the victim is motivating the people conveying the gossip, and in so
             doing they are not considered to be evil people, nevertheless it is
             still forbidden to believe them, as I explained above in the second
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             halacha of this Kelal.                                                                רוּסא )א( ךְכּ ,הרָוֹתּה ןִמ ערָה ןוֹשׁל לבּקַל רוּסאֶשׁ םֵשׁכּ .א
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                                                                                                   .ערָה ןוֹשׁל ללכִבּ איִה םגֶּשׁ ,הרָוֹתּה ןִמ תוּליִכרְ לבּקַל
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             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 223
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                                                                                                   הָשׂע ךְכו ךְכֶּשׁ ,וֹל רפִּסֶּשּׁ המֶּשׁ ,וֹבִּלבּ ןיִמאי אלֶֹּשׁ ,וּניהדּ
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             RK6/5.    It  is  forbidden  to  believe  gossip  even  if  the  speaker
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             conveying it has the same authority as two witnesses and even if there                רבוֹע לבּקְַמהו .תמא אוּה ,ינוֹלְפּ וילע רבּדּ וֹא ,ינוֹלְפּ וֹל                                                                                                 VOL-4
      Mekor Hachayim  that information will have no future impact on his life.  However, if        ןיּע ,החיִתְפּבּ ליֵעל ראֹבְמכּ ,הזל ןיִפרְטצִמּה ןיִשֲׂעו ןיואל                                                                                                2
             is no way to think favorably about Plony (8).  Everything we have
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                                                                                                   ראְשׁ דבל "אוָשׁ עמֵשׁ אָשִּׂת אלֹ" :רמאנֶּשׁ הֶשׂעַת אלֹבּ
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             said until now applies if the gossip has no bearing on the victim and
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             the gossip is relevant and will result in some benefit (9) to the victim,
                                                                                                   ,וֹרְמוֹאה ,ןָתּגרַוֹה ערָה ןוֹשׁל הָשׁלְֹשׁ :ל"זח וּרְמאו .םָשׁ
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             for example- the speaker told him Plony wants to harm him, either
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                                                                                                   ,גאוֹדּ ןינִעֵמ עוּדיֶּשׁ וֹמכּ( וילע רמאנֶּשׁ יִמוּ ,וֹלבּקְַמהו
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             physically or monetarily, or something comparable, and therefore
             this victim should protect himself from him, then it is permissible to
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                                                                                                   ריִע בֹנ הגרְהנו ,תוּליִכרְה תבִּסבּ אבּה םלוֹעֵמ דרְַטנֶּשׁ
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             believe this speaker (who has the same authority as two witnesses).
             However the victim may not disclose this information \ this gossip
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             to anyone else (10), not even to members of his own household,
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                                                                                                   ןִמ רֵתוֹי וֹלבּקְַמהו ,)תוּליִכרְה תא לבִּקֶּשׁ רוּבֲע ,ךְכּ רחא
             unless some future benefit will evolve as a result of that disclosure.                לוּאָשׁ  גרַהנו  ,תוּליִכרְה  םהילֲע  רמאנ  רֶשׁא  ,םינהֹכּה
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             All this is relevant only if the speaker himself heard Plony threaten                 לבּקְַמהו ערָה ןוֹשׁל רפּסְמה לכֶּשׁ :ל"זח וּרְמאו .וֹרְמוֹאה
             the  victim.    But  if  the  speaker  was  not  a  firsthand  witness,  and          אָשִּׂת אלֹ" :רמאנֶּשׁ ,םיִבלכּל וֹכיִלְשׁהל יוּארָ ,ערָה ןוֹשׁל
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             someone else told him (11) what Plony said, he has no basis for
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             depending on the word of another person (and he may not believe                          ."וֹתוֹא ןוּכיִלְשַׁתּ בלכּל" :הּל ךְיִמסוּ ,"אוָשׁ עמֵשׁ

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