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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                  םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara        ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Yud  -  Halachah 11             אי הכלה -  י ללכ


 way of defending himself (Rav Hunah had no choice but to implicate his    'ו  ללכב  ל"נכו  רוסא  כ"ג  ר"השל  תעימשד  ףא
 sharecropper in order to deflect the criticism from himself) therefore he
 was compelled to speak this truth.  With this approach the understanding    קר לבקל אבקוע רמ תנוכ היה אלד אוה טושפד
 of  the  Gemara  Arachin  (16b)  flows  very  well  regarding  the  incident    ידכ בטיה הז לע כ"חא רוקחל ידכ ןנע ברמ עמש
 involving Rav Hunah and Chiyyah Bar Rav who were sitting before (the
 Master) Shemuel.  (Chiyyah Bar Rav said to Shemuel) “Did the Master see    ןכ היהש ומכ ןנע בר בלמ תומוערתה ז"יע ריסיש
 how he (Rav Hunah) was annoying me?”  (Rashi explains) Meaning, that    ללכב אוהד עומשל הוצמ יאדוב הז ןפואבו ףוסב
 he was hitting me and prodding me.  Rav Hunah accepted upon himself
 not to annoy him anymore.  After Chiyyah Bar Rav left, Rav Hunah said   .)תוכז ףכל ןדו םולש תאבה
 to Shemuel (I was only responding to him in‑kind because) he did such‑
 and‑such to me.  Please see that reference.  Rav Hunah’s only intention    הגהנה  דומלל  שי  ל"נה  אבקוע  רמד  השעממו
 (in telling Shemuel what Chiyyah Bar Rav did to him first) was to deflect
 the criticism from himself by speaking out the truth of what had happened    וריבחל רפיס דחא םא ונייהד ,ולא םינינעב הלודג
 and not to humiliate Chiyyah Bar Rav, and there was no other way to do    ימ היהי ,ופדיגו ופריח וא הער ול השע ינולפש
 this except by saying what actually happened. (A comparable proof to this
 leniency is found in Choshen Mishpat, paragraph #421, sub-paragraph #    אל  יאדובד  רודה  ילודגמ  וליפא  ,רפסמה  היהיש
 1, in the Hagahot; please see that reference).   תא ונממ לאשלמ וריבח שובי אל כ"פעא ,רקשי

 However, one must be extremely careful not to omit any of the details    םימעפ הברה יכ ,הלחתמ היה רשא השעמה םצע
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 that are explained further on in the 14  halacha of this Kelal.  Because if    היהש ןנע ברמ היארהו ,וכפהל ןינעה ז"יע הנתשי
 something is omitted in using this leniency, most certainly a person will
 fall into the sin of speaking Lashon Hara.  If not for the useful outcome    תובותכב אתיאד ומכ והילא יוליג ול היהו ארומא
 discussed here, in deflecting criticism from himself, even if the speaker had    השעמה אבקוע רמ ונממ שרדשכ כ"פעא )ו"ק ףד(
 no intention of denigrating his fellow Jew, those remarks would be Lashon
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 Hara, as we wrote above in the 3  Kelal, the 3  halacha, since ultimately   .בוטל ערמ ןינעה ז"יע הנתשנ ותומילשב
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 the “victim” would be denigrated by those remarks and the Torah forbids
 Lashon Hara even if the remarks are true.     אתיאד אהמ םינפבש ירבד לע תושקהל ןיא ןכו
 Now to return to our discussion: Don’t question what we have said – that    יב  ביתי  הוהד  אייח  'רב  )א"ע  ג"ל(  ןישודיקב
 it is forbidden to say that someone insulted you ‑  using as your basis for    אלו הימק יברב ןועמש 'ר ליזאו ףילחו אתוחסמ
  9
 the question the Gemara Ketubot (69a)   regarding an incident involving
                       הובאל ל"א אתאו ,דפקיאו ,הימקמ אייח 'ר םק
                       ימקמ םק אלו םילהת רפסב ול יתינש םישמוח ינש
 69  Gemara Ketubot (69a) Rav Anan sent a note to Rav Hunah addressing him
 (seemingly casually) by his first name.  The note asked that Rav Hunah collect    היה ךיאו ,םש רחא השעמ דוע אנווג יאהכו ,'וכו
 for a woman the one-tenth of her father’s estate that she was entitled to.  Rav
 Hunah  objected  to  the casual presumption  of the  note and  instructed Rav    ,יבר ינפל הז רבד רפסל יברב ןועמש 'רל רתומ
 Sheshat (at the risk of excommunication if he did not comply) to deliver a
 response “Anan, Anan!, should  I collect that money from fixed land properties    עדיש קר ותונגל היה אל ןועמש 'ר תנוכד ל"יד
 or from moveable assets, and by the way, answer me, who sits at the head of    ול ןיעמשנ ויהי וירבדו הז רובע וחיכויו הזמ ויבא
 the room in a mourner’s house?”  Rav Sheshat delivered the note and said Rav
 Anan is a Master but Rav Hunah is a Master’s Master.  Rav Anan complained   .*ומצעב וחיכומ היה םאשמ רתוי




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