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Sefer Chafetz Chayim  VOL-3  3     םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara     ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Yud                          'י ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


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 where all of the details of this exception were discussed (30).
               לכו וֹשׁיִּבוּ וֹרֲעִצ וֹא ,וֹפרְחֶשׁ וֹא ,ןפֹאה הזבוּ הזבּ וֹקָשֲׁע
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 is not to give themselves the license (31) to talk about some other    ,ל"נּה רֵתּהה יֵטרְָפּ ראְשׁ לכּ הזל וּפרְטצי םִא וּלִּפאו ,)ג"י
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 or cheated by this person in such and such a circumstance or how    םסרְפל ,וּניהדּ ,תלעוֹתל רוּפִּסּה תֵעבּ וֹתנוּכּ ןיא יאדּובדּ
 he  was  insulted  or  how  he  was  anguished  or  humiliated  by  this    ,םדא ינבּ יניֵעבּ העְשׁרִ יֵשׂוֹע וּזוּביֶּשׁ ידֵכּ ,וֹרבח לֶשׁ וֹתוּנגּ
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 lying in any of the details of the story he is telling (except for the    אוּהֶשׁ ידֵכּ וֹא ,םיִערָה םהיכרְדַבּ תכללִּמ הז ידֵי לע וּרהזּיו
 circumstance I will explain further on in the 1   halacha) and he    הז ידֵי לע ילוּא ,וֹתוֹא תוֹנּגְמ תוֹיּרִבּהֶשׁ וֹמצעבּ הארְי
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 is complying with the other rules listed above in the    halacha
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 of this Kelal, still this speaker (may not relay the story because    ינבּ יניֵעבּ וֹתוֹזּבל ידֵכּ וֹתנוּכּ קרַ ,םיִערָה ויכרָדִּמ בוּשׁי
 he) has absolutely no intention to achieve a useful outcome.  For    עגנֶּשׁ הז רוּבֲע ןוֹלקָלוּ הפּרְחל םהינְפִל םסרְפיֶּשׁ ,םדא
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 degradation in order that society would denigrate people like this    וּלבּקְַתי וירָבדֶּשׁ ,רֵתוֹי הארְיֶּשׁ לכו ,וֹדוֹבכִבּ וֹא וֹנוֹממבּ
 who do evil and who commit these sins, and in so doing society    רוּבֲע ןוֹיזִּבלוּ תוּנגִל םהיניֵעבּ םסרְפְּתיו ,םיִעְמוֹשּׁה ינְפִל
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 Mekor Hachayim  and with that realization he will change his lifestyle and do good.      ,תוֹבוֹטבּ וֹמִּע ביִטיה אלֹ קרַ ,וֹל ערַה אלֹ םִא רמֹחו לקַו .בי
 will become careful not to learn to copy this person’s evil habits
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 But rather this speaker’s only intention was to defame this person
 and diminish his esteem in society and to publicize and spread this
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 his own personal honor.  And the more this speaker sees that society
               תסנכהו הקָדצוּ האולה ינינִעבּ וֹמִּע ביִטיהל יוּארָ היה רֶשׁא
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 achieves a sense of self‑satisfaction.   רבדּ ךְכּ רחא הלּגְמוּ ךְלוֹה אוּה םִא ,הזבּ אצוֹיּכו םיִחרְוֹא
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               איִה הרָוּמגּ ערָה ןוֹשׁל ,הזבּ ינוֹלְפּ תוֹנּגל םיִשׁנאל הז
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               רבוֹעו ,'א ףיִעס 'ה ללכִבּ ליֵעל וּנבַתכֶּשׁ וֹמכוּ ,ןידּה ןִמ
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               ,ערָה ןוֹשׁל רוּסִּא דבל ,םירִחא ןיואל המּכּ לע דוֹע הזבּ
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 no harm to the speaker but merely did not agree to extend to him    וּניֵתוֹנוֲֹעבּ  ,הזבּ  ןיִלָשׁכנו  .ל"נּה  ללכּבּ  וּנרְאבֶּשׁ  וֹמכוּ
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