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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                               VOL-3  3                            םייח ץפח רפס
                              Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara                                                            ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
                                       Kelal Yud                                                                       'י ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


             above in the    halacha, except if one sees this person intentionally                 רפּסל וֹמצעל ריִתּהל אלֶֹּשׁ )אל( ,רהזִּל שׁי דֹאְמּ המוּ .אי
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             repeating the sin and his actions are well known throughout Jewish
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             society to be sinful.  Please see above, the    Kelal, the    halacha                 וֹא ,וֹלזגוּ ,ינוֹלְפוּ ינוֹלְפּ םִע קסֵע וֹל היהֶשׁ ךְיא ,םירִחאל
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             where all of the details of this exception were discussed (30).
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             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 349                                                        ,וֹמצעבּ עדֵוֹי אוּה םִא וּלִּפאו ,)הזבּ אצוֹיּכּ לכו( אנוגּ יאהכּ
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             K10/11.  Something everyone should be especially careful about                        ףיִעסבּ ןמּקַל ראבנֶּשׁ ןפֹאבּ אלֹ םִא( הזּה רוּפִּסּבּ רֵקַּשְׁמ וֹניאֶשׁ
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             is not to give themselves the license (31) to talk about some other                   ,ל"נּה רֵתּהה יֵטרְָפּ ראְשׁ לכּ הזל וּפרְטצי םִא וּלִּפאו ,)ג"י
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             or cheated by this person in such and such a circumstance or how                      םסרְפל ,וּניהדּ ,תלעוֹתל רוּפִּסּה תֵעבּ וֹתנוּכּ ןיא יאדּובדּ
             he  was  insulted  or  how  he  was  anguished  or  humiliated  by  this              ,םדא ינבּ יניֵעבּ העְשׁרִ יֵשׂוֹע וּזוּביֶּשׁ ידֵכּ ,וֹרבח לֶשׁ וֹתוּנגּ
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             person or something comparable.  Even if he knows that he is not
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             lying in any of the details of the story he is telling (except for the                אוּהֶשׁ ידֵכּ וֹא ,םיִערָה םהיכרְדַבּ תכללִּמ הז ידֵי לע וּרהזּיו
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             circumstance I will explain further on in the 1   halacha) and he                     הז ידֵי לע ילוּא ,וֹתוֹא תוֹנּגְמ תוֹיּרִבּהֶשׁ וֹמצעבּ הארְי
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             of this Kelal, still this speaker (may not relay the story because                    ינבּ יניֵעבּ וֹתוֹזּבל ידֵכּ וֹתנוּכּ קרַ ,םיִערָה ויכרָדִּמ בוּשׁי
             he) has absolutely no intention to achieve a useful outcome.  For                     עגנֶּשׁ הז רוּבֲע ןוֹלקָלוּ הפּרְחל םהינְפִל םסרְפיֶּשׁ ,םדא
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             degradation in order that society would denigrate people like this                    וּלבּקְַתי וירָבדֶּשׁ ,רֵתוֹי הארְיֶּשׁ לכו ,וֹדוֹבכִבּ וֹא וֹנוֹממבּ
             who do evil and who commit these sins, and in so doing society                        רוּבֲע ןוֹיזִּבלוּ תוּנגִל םהיניֵעבּ םסרְפְּתיו ,םיִעְמוֹשּׁה ינְפִל
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      Mekor Hachayim  and with that realization he will change his lifestyle and do good.          ,תוֹבוֹטבּ וֹמִּע ביִטיה אלֹ קרַ ,וֹל ערַה אלֹ םִא רמֹחו לקַו .בי
             will become careful not to learn to copy this person’s evil habits
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             or so that this person himself will see how society denigrates him
             But rather this speaker’s only intention was to defame this person
             and diminish his esteem in society and to publicize and spread this
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             his own personal honor.  And the more this speaker sees that society
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             is accepting what he says and spreads the image of this person’s
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             degradation and lowliness, the happier he becomes and the more he
             achieves a sense of self‑satisfaction.                                                רבדּ ךְכּ רחא הלּגְמוּ ךְלוֹה אוּה םִא ,הזבּ אצוֹיּכו םיִחרְוֹא
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             K10/12.   It is an obvious logical deduction that if this person did
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             no harm to the speaker but merely did not agree to extend to him                      וּניֵתוֹנוֲֹעבּ  ,הזבּ  ןיִלָשׁכנו  .ל"נּה  ללכּבּ  וּנרְאבֶּשׁ  וֹמכוּ
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