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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפס
                              Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara                                                            ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
                                       Kelal Yud                                                                       'י ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


             in the category of people who  habitually speak Lashon Hara and                       וֹתוֹאל רבדּה תוֹלּגל רוּסאֶשׁ ,ןכֶּשׁ לכו .תוּליִכרְ תוֹכלִהבּ
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             he also violates several other of the esurim described above in the
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             Introduction.  Please see that reference.                                             הזדּ ,תמאל אנּקַל וֹתנוּכֶּשׁ ףא ,וילע רבּדֶּשׁ ,אפוּגּ ינוֹלְפּ
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             The  Fifth Condition: The speaker’s sole motivation can only be to                    גלגלְמ םיִתוּחְפּה ןִמ דחא םִא וּלִּפא ,הרָוּמגּ תוּליִכרְ אוּה
             achieve a useful outcome.  (Please see the following Hagahah).  The                          .וֹבּרַ וֹא ויִבא אוּהו ,לארְָשׂיבֶּשׁ בוּשׁחה ןִמ
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             desire to achieve a positive outcome is the very foundation of this
             entire leniency, as we wrote above in the 1   halacha.
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             The  Sixth  Condition:  If  the  speaker  is  able  to  achieve  a  useful
             outcome by some other means without having to publicly disclose                       אלֹ ןידֲַע םִא ףא ,םירִחאל רבדּה רפּסל רָתּמדּ םיִמעְפוּ .ו
             what he saw, then in all circumstances it is forbidden to disclose the                    ִ         ַ      ֵ  ֲ  ַ  ָ  ָ  ַ  ֵ  ַ  ְ  ֻ  ְ  ָ
             incident he saw.  Even if he becomes obligated to report to others                    ןוֹדּנּהל עיגּיֶּשׁ )אכ( האוֹר אוּה םִא וּניהדּ ,ןוֹדּנּהל עדַוֹנ
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             the incident that he witnessed, in doing so he must minimize the
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             “crime” to the extent that this person will not become degraded in                    םיִטרְָפּה ןכּ םגּ הזבּ וּרסחי אלֹו )בכ( ,שׁמּמ תלעוֹתּ הזִּמ
             the esteem of these listeners.  If the outcome he is trying to achieve                ןינִעבּ  ירַבדּ  תא  ראבאו  .םייּח  םימ  ראבִבּ  ןיּעו  ,ל"נּה
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             will not be diminished by this other means, then it is a mitzvah
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             to minimize (38) the crime and not disclose the instigator’s shame                    ,ןוֹגכּ  ,הזבּ  תוֹעְטִל  ארֵוֹקּה  אוֹבי  אלֶֹּשׁ  ידֵכּ  ,תלעוֹתּה
             since the desired outcome can be reached by this other means.
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                                                                                                   ,רוּפִּסּה  ןינִע  יִפלוּ  לכוֹרה  שׁיִאה  עבֶטבּ  ריִכּמ  אוּהֶשׁ
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             The  Seventh  Condition:  In  disclosing  what  he  witnessed,  the                   וּנּמִּמ ךְכּ רחא ךְלי ןכּ ,וינפבּ וֹתוֹא הנּגְמ אוּהֶשׁ וֹמכֶּשׁ
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             speaker may not cause any greater harm (39) to the instigator than
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             the law requires had the speaker testified against the instigator in                  המ יִפל ,טרְָפִבוּ ,םירִחא םיִשׁנא ינְפִבּ דוֹע וֹתוֹא הנּגיו                                                                                                    VOL-3
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      Mekor Hachayim  ֿ K10/15.    And  now  my  brother,  see  what  great  discretion  is        וּנלּכּ טעְמִכּ יִכּ ,םיִבּרַה וּניֵתוֹנוֲֹעבּ ,עוּדי הז רבדו .וירָבדּ                                                                                          3
             Beit Din (and the court found him guilty and sentenced him to the
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                                                                                                   לבּקִ  אלֹו  ,וֹחיִכוֹהו  ,םדֶֹקִּמ  וֹחיִכוֹהל  ךְירִצדּ  ,וּנבַתכֶּשּׁ
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             extent the law requires).
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                                                                                                   בוֹרקָו ,ערָה ןוֹשׁל תלבּקַבּ ,טרְָפִבוּ ,ערָה ןוֹשׁלבּ ןיִלָשׁכנ
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                                                                                                   ךְכּ רחא הֶשׁקָ היהיו ,וֹלֶּשׁ ערָה ןוֹשׁלה לבּקְַתִתֶּשׁ ,רבדּה
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             needed to decide what circumstances would permit speaking out
             and disclosing the details of this incident because at the moment
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                                                                                                   .וֹבירִבּ  ןוֹשׁארִה  קידּצ  יִכּ  ,םבִּלִּמ  םירִבדּה  תא  איִצוֹהל
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             the speaker is poised to report what was done to him by this other
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             person, he stands in great danger in the face of this profound sin
             of speaking Lashon Hara unless he protects himself by observing                       םָתוֹא ינְפִל וֹמצע תא םידּקְיֶּשׁ ,רבדּה ןוֹכנ יאדּובּ ןכל
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                                                                                                   רפּסיו ,לגּרְַמה לֶשׁ וֹתלוע לדֶֹגּ םהינְפִל ךְירֲִעיו ,םיִשׁנאה
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             all of the rules that allow disclosure and in particular the second
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             and fourth rules.  Regarding this, it is obvious that “Death and life                 אלֹ לע םנִּחבּ ינוֹלְפּ וֹתוֹאל הנּגְמ אוּהֶשׁ ךְיא ,םהינְפִל
             reside in one’s mouth” (Mishle 1 : 1).  Unless the speaker cares to                   רפּסיו לגּרְַמה ךְכּ רחא אוֹבי רֶשׁאכֶּשׁ ידֵכּ ,וֹפּכבּ סמח
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             think about his own well‑being before he begins to talk about the
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             event he experienced, then most certainly in any way he chooses                       ,וינפּ לע וּהוּחיִכוֹי ,הבּרַדּאו ,וירָבדּ וּלבּקְַתי אלֹ ,םהינְפִל
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