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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                   םייח ץפח רפס
                              Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara                                                            ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
                                       Kelal Yud                                                                       'י ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


             reply- “I did not do it” (43). (This is true even if the event was such               אוּה ,תלעוֹתל ןוּכיֶּשׁ ,ליֵעל וּנבַתכֶּשׁ ,יִשׁיִמחה טרְָפּה .ד
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             that even if he wasn’t asked and wasn’t suspect at all and still he
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             would have had to disclose what he saw, as an example, the event                      אוּהֶשׁ ,םיִשׁנאה םִא )ל"צ אלֹ( יֵעבִּמ אל וּניהדּ ,ראבנֶּשׁ וֹמכּ
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             involved an interpersonal “wrong” and he complied with all seven                      קזּנּהו קָשׁענּהו לזגנּל רֹזֲעל )די( םה םיִלוֹכי םהינְפִל רפּסְמ
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             rules permitting disclosure or the event involved a “wrong” that this
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             person did in his relationship with G‑d, and all of the conditions                    וּלִּפאו .ןכּ רבדּה תוֹשֲׂעל ןוֹכנ יאדּובּ ,םנינִעבּ שׁיּבְּתִמּהו
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             were fulfilled that were discussed in the 4  Kelal, in the   ,    and
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                halachot; please see that reference.                                               קרַ )וט( ,וֹרוּפִּס ידֵי לע עיגּהל לכוּתּ אלֹ תאֹזּה תלעוֹתּה םִא
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             Everything written up until this point is from the perspective of                     ,וּעְמְשׁיֶּשׁכּ עַשׁרֶ ךְרֶדִּמ םדא ינבּ וּקחרְַתיֶּשׁ ןוּכְּתִמ אוּהֶשׁ
             strict  law.    But  it  is  appropriate  and  correct  for  anyone  who  is          לע בוּשׁי וֹמצעבּ אוּה ילוּאו ,ןוא ילֲעוֹפּ תוֹנּגְמ תוֹיּרִבּהֶשׁ
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             striving  in  life  to  improve  his  soul  to  go  beyond  the  dictates  of
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             strict law and not avoid doing what is right, namely to the extent                    תוֹיּרִבּהֶשׁ ,עמְשׁיֶּשׁכּ ,ויָשֲׂעמ ןֵקַּתיו םיִערָה ויכרָדִּמ הז ידֵי
             possible he should not disclose the event to the person requesting                    ,ערָה ןוֹשׁל ללכִבּ וּנּניא הז םגּ ,הז רוּבע וֹתוֹא תוֹנּגְמ
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             that  information  and  not  come  to  a  point  where  in  so  doing  he
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             would embarrass this other person.  More than this, we have found                     תוֹנהל ןוּכְמ ןיא םינפּ לכּ לעֶשׁ ןויכּ )זט( ,בֵשׁחי תלעוֹתלוּ
             in Gemara Sanhedrin (11a) several Tana’im who took the blame                          ילוּאו ,תמאל אנּקַל קרַ וֹרבחבּ ןֵתוֹנ אוּהֶשׁ ,אוּהה םגְפּהֵמ
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             themselves  for  something  done  by  someone  else  in  order  not  to
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             disclose the identity of the sinner.  We have also found this concept                           .*אבּהל לע תלעוֹתּ הז ידֵי לע אוֹבָתּ
             discussed in Sefer Chasidim (section #  ), quoted as follows:  “If
             he (this observer \ speaker) is part of a group of men and something
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             inappropriate was done (by one of them) and no one knows who did                      ,תלעוֹתּ םוּשׁ היהִתּ אלֹ יאדּובֶּשׁ ,רֵעַשְׁמ אוּה םִא לבֲא
      Mekor Hachayim                                                                               ,םיִשׁנאל תאֹזּה הערָהכּ םיִמעְפּ המּכּ וּשׂע םה םגֶּשׁ ,עַשׁרֶה
             it, he should say‑ ‘I am the guilty party,’ even though he committed
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                                                                                                   ילֲעבּ םה םגּ םהינְפִל רפּסְמ אוּהֶשׁ ,םיִשׁנאה םִא ,ןוֹגכּ
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             no wrong.”  Please see that reference
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                                                                                                   אלֶֹּשׁ ,רהזּי וּלּאכּ םיִשׁנאל ,ללכּ ןוֹעל םהיניֵעבּ בָשׁחנ אלֹו
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                                                                                                   תלעוֹתּ םוּשׁ אוֹבָת אלֶֹּשׁ דבלִּמ יִכּ .הזכּ ןינִע ללכּ רפּסל
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                                                                                                   וּכלי םה יִכּ ,לוֹדגּ לוּקלקִ הזִּמ חֹמצִל לכוּי דוֹע ,וֹרוּפִּסִּמ
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                                                                                                   ידֵי לע וּרבעיו שׁיּבְמהו קֵשׁוֹעהו ןלזגּהל הז רבדּ וּרְפּסיו
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                                                                                                   הז ידֵי לע םגו "ךָימּעבּ ליִכרָ ךְלֵת אלֹ"דּ ואלּה לע הז
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                                                                                                   סח ,םִא טרְָפִבוּ ,תוֹלוֹדגּ תוֹקוֹלחמ ךְכּ רחא אוֹבל ליגרָ
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                                                                                                   םִא וּלִּפא ,תוּניִשׁלמ ןינִעל הז ידֵי לע אוֹבל לכוּי ,םוֹלָשׁו
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                                                                                                      .רבדּ םוּשׁ רפּסל רוּסא ןכּ םגּ ,םיִטרְָפּה לכּ וּמלְשׁי
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