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Introduction to                        החיתפ
 Sefer Chafetz Chayim               םייח ץפח רפסל
 Aseen - A6
                                      בי השע - ןישע

 Be’er Mayim Chayim   ןוֹשׁל רפּסְמֶּשׁ תֵעבּ לבא ,*וֹתיחִמ תא גיִשּׂהל ןפֹא הזיאבּ
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 (A6)  in order to publicly degrade another Jew, or to listen to    םגו ?הזִּמ וֹתסנרְפבּ וֹל עיגּי תלעוֹתּ המ ,תוּליִכרְ וֹא ערָה
 their  degrading  remarks  about  another  Jew,  he  violates  the
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 Aseh:  Quoting the (two halachot of the ) Rambam in the 6  perek of    ראֹבְמכּ ,ןכּ םגּ ןיואל המּכּ לע וֹרוּפִּס לֶשׁ הזּה תֵעבּ רבוֹע
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 Hilchot De'Aut, the 1  halacha is an obligation to cling to the righteous    המּכבּ הרָוֹתּה ןִמ וּנרְהזהֶשׁ ,םָשׁ ןיּע ,)ג"י הֶשֲׂעַת אלֹבּ( ג"מסּבּ
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 people of our times and to constantly associate with the Chachamim in
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 order to learn their habits and to stay away from evil people who live in    הזיאבּ יִכּ ,םינפּ םוּשׁבּ הרָוֹתּה ןִמ שׁרֹפִל אלֶֹּשׁ ,ןיואל
 darkness and not to learn their ways.  Regarding this Shelomo HaMelech
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 said  in  Mishle  (13:20)  “Those  who  remain  with  the  Chachamim  will    ןדְמל אוּה םִא ,הרָוֹתדּ הֵשֲׂע תוצִמ םיּקַל לוֹכי אוּהֶשׁ ןפֹא
 become smart but those who remain with fools will be ruined.”  Similarly      אוּה םגּ ,ןדְמל וֹניאֶשׁ שׁיִא אוּה םִא ףאו ,וֹדוּמִּל יִפל ,לוֹדגּ
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 David HaMelech said in Tehilim (1:1) “Praiseworthy is the person who
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 does not remain in the company of evil people.”  The 2   halacha is an    ,וּננּמזִבּ זנכְּשׁא ןוֹשׁלִל םיקִָתְּעמּה שׁדֶקֹ ירְֵפִס דֹמלִל לוֹכי
 Aseh to cling to the Chachamim and the sages in order to learn their habits.
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 The pasuk urges “and you should cling to Him.”  But it is not possible to    ,הזבּ אצוֹיּכו "רוֹאמּה תרַוֹנְמ"וּ "תוֹבבלּה תוֹבוֹח" ןוֹגכּ
 cling to Hashem’s presence, rather the meaning is that it is a mitzvah to    ,אוּה ךְוּרבּ שׁוֹדקּה לֶשׁ וֹתארְי םדאה בבלִבּ םיִסינכמּה
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 remain in  the company of our sages and their students.  One must make
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 an effort to marry the daughter of a sage or to marry-off one’s daughter   .תוּליִכרְוּ ערָה ןוֹשׁל רפּסלוּ הרָוֹתּה ןִמ לֵטבּ בֵשׁיל אלֹו
 to a sage and to eat and drink with our sages and to enter into business
 arrangements with them and to frequent them at every opportunity.  (His
 holy words are quoted up until this point). This is also the opinion of the
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 Se’Mag (in his commentary on the 8  Aseh) (please see that reference).
                                       :ה"הגה
 What I've written regarding this Aseh most certainly applies in all eight
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 qualities.    חרֵכהה ידֵכִּמ רֵתוֹיל ןמז הז לע איִצוֹי אלֶֹּשׁ ,דֹאְמ רהזִּל ךְירִצ הזבּ םגּ ךְא *
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 (This discussion regarding the subject of not getting involved with groups    .חרֵכה אוּה לֹכּהֶשׁ רמאֹי אוּה יִכּ ,הזבּ וֹכּרְדּ תא רציּהל חינּהל אלֶֹּשׁו יִתִּמאה
 of  bad  people  also  applies  to  places  where  large  groups  of  people  get    עבֶט יִפל אלֹה יִכּ ,הזבּ וּניניֵע תא אֵמּסְמ רציּה ךְאיה ,הארְוּ יִחא ןחבוּ
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 together, such as at weddings and similar social functions.  Very often,    ,םנִּח תנְתּמבּ ,וּהוֹמכּ םדו רָשׂבּ אוּה רֶשׁא ,וּהֵערֵ וֹמִּע ביִטיי םִא ,םדאה
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 the Yetzer  Hara  will  push  someone  specifically  into  conversation  with
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 groups of people where the conversation can evolve into almost any topic    וֹל ןֵתּיֶּשׁ לכּ ,וֹתּכאלְמִל דחא תיבּ לעבּ וּנּרֶכְּשׂיו ,הכאלְמ לעבּ אוּה םִא וֹא
 and  during  these  conversations  one  can  hear  about  all  worldly  matters    וּלִּאו ,בוֹטּה דצ לע הָּתוֹשֲׂעל וֹתדוֹבֲעבּ זירִז רֵתוֹיו ענכנ רֵתוֹי אוּה ,רֵתוֹי
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 including new insights into many things.  These discussions of worldly
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 news invariably deteriorate into language that is profoundly sinful, Lashon    םרָמאמכּ ,םוֹי ירֵיִכְשִׂכּ ןיִבָשׁחנ וּנא הּבּ םגּ רֶשׁא ,םלוֹע לֶשׁ וֹכּלמ תדַוֹבֲעבּ
 Hara and related speech that is equally forbidden.  But if one strengthens    ךְוּפִּהֵמ הָּתוֹשֲׂעל וּנכּרְדּ תא הֶטּמ ערָה רציּה ,ןנא יֵמוֹי ירֵיגא ןנא :ל"ז ַ
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 \ fortifies \ braces himself against his Yetzer Hara and sits next to G‑d
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 fearing people who learn Torah,  he will be saved from this sin and will    ויקָסֲעבּ וֹל חיורְיו הבוֹטבּ וֹל ףיִסוֹי אוּה ךְוּרבּ שׁוֹדקּהֶשּׁ המ לכּ יִכּ ,ךְוּפִּהל
 moreover fulfill the mitzvah of “and cling to Him” in accordance with the    ,אוּה ךְוּרבּ שׁוֹדקּה ךָל ןַתנֶּשׁ ךָרְְשׁע יִפל הָתּע יִכּ :רֹמאל רציּה וּנֶּתיִסי ,רֵתוֹי
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 opinions of the Rambam and the Se’Mag)   ךְרֶדֶכּ גהנְתִהלוּ המקְרִ יֵשׁוּבּלמבּ ךְלילו רֵתוֹי האנ הרָידִבּ רוּדל חרָכמ הָתּא
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               חרָכמ הָתּא ןכלו ,ךָירֶבח יניֵעל הזּבְּתִתּ ןכ אלֹ םִאֶשׁ ,םיִהוֹבגּה םיִתּבּה ילֲעבּ
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