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         cal beauty? Why does he   pana a new lease of life by
         deem it necessary to craft   placing her work before   PARENTING IN THE AGE OF
         strong feminist characters,   the world: a 21st-century   ANXIETY: RAISING CHILDREN IN
         endow them with beauty,   world where religious fun-  INDIA IN THE 21ST CENTURY
         but then disable them with   damentalism locks horns   Abha Adams
         some sort of dysfunctional   with secular ideologies,   ALEPH BOOK COMPANY
         characteristics?         where kings set narra-     Rs.399          Pages 224
           Either way, Pampa      tives, where fiction is more
         Kampana’s inability to ig-  powerful than history,
         nore the rulers of Bisnaga   where the state whispers
         proves to be her undoing.   to citizens about who they   education, among her   Well-known K-12
         The last great Bisnaga king   are so they can hold on to   many accomplishments,   educator Abha
         Krishnadevaraya, blinds   non-negotiable identities   her instrumental contribu-  Adams discusses
         Pampa Kampana when he    and seek to kill or die for   tion in the setting up of the   the challenges and
         thinks she has deceived   them, where women still   country’s iconic institu-  choices parents
         him. She lives in the    struggle for a seat at the   tions, widely regarded as   face, and must
         corner of a secluded room   table of the powerful, and   schools that are centres   make, while raising
         in a monastery, cloaked   where rulers still aspire to   of excellence — Shri Ram   children in these
         in darkness and silence   be immortal by finding a   schools & Step by Step —   fractious times
         until the day she decides to   place for themselves in the   themselves speak volumes
         record the story of Bisnaga   historical record.  of her knowledge and
         — her story — for times yet   Who wins in this game   insights. In a life dedicated   Parents, teachers, counsel-
         to come.                 of history? In Victory   to education, her endur-  lors, child psychologists,
           With the help of a     City, Rushdie is giving   ing and distinguished   psycho-therapists, family
         lettered princess who is   us an answer. If “words   career began as a student   therapists, and most im-
         sympathetic to her, Pampa   are the only victors”, it is   at Delhi’s Lady Shri Ram   portantly, children share
         Kampana tells her story   the writer who triumphs   College. Abha Adams is the   their first-hand experi-
         and the story of Bisnaga   over kings and rulers. It   embodiment of wisdom,   ences in this book. Besides
         and its kings, their avarice,   is the writer who shapes   a fountainhead of an all-  confronting challenges like
         their foibles, their vanity,   the historical record and   encompassing philosophy   early puberty, advancing
         and their mistakes. She   our understanding of a   of teaching and parenting   adolescence, and fitting
         begins to restore herself   particular time and place   with contemporary rel-  in with friends to the pain
         through her own words. In   in history.          evance, more pressing and   points of teenage years,
         spite of being blinded by    When empires have   urgent than ever.        PITAA also addresses pres-
         the power of the state, she   fallen and regimes vanish   It is in this very real   ent-day issues like mental
         can now see what she must   into oblivion, and writers   context, against a back-  health and well-being and
         do. Writing this history   have been attacked and   drop of severe identity-  problems of raising chil-
         is her way of snatching   erased because the state   crisis and a loss-of-self,   dren with special needs.
         power away from the lofty   decreed it, their words will   that Adams’ book  Par-  Critical issues like sub-
         kings of Bisnaga with their   endure, always victorious.  enting in the Age of   stance abuse, self-harm,
         golden crowns. In the end,   VASUNDHARA SIRNATE   Anxiety (PITAA), becomes   sexual orientation, suicide,
         they will be remembered        (The Book Review)  pertinent, immediately   and teenage pregnancies,
         how she chooses.           .                     applicable, and serves as a   which are usually brushed
           Pampa Kampana is                               valuable guide to parents,   under the carpet, are dis-
         destined to live as long   Excellent family      caregivers, guardians,   cussed at length.
         as Bisnaga lives. As the                         teachers, mentors and      Among a slew of self-
         fall of Bisnaga begins,   therapy                principals.              help books, there are some
         Pampa Kampana hides the                             The book’s cover is   key differentiators that
         finished manuscript Jay-                         disarmingly simple, but   make PITAA stand head
         aparajaya in a clay pot. It    BHA ADAMS’        the content is potent.   and shoulders above the
         is hurriedly buried and for-   reputation as In-  Adams discusses the chal-  rest.
         gotten for centuries. Until  Adia’s pre-eminent   lenges and choices parents   First, Adams is an
         the present day, when the   educationist precedes   face, and must make,   author who represents an
         translator of Jayapara-  her, and for good reason.   while raising children   educated, deeply insightful
         jaya gives Pampa Kam-    As a pioneering force in   in these fractious times.   amalgam of real-world,

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