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              Thinking about family and                               always  peaceful  and  tranquil  all  year
                                                                      round.
                     roles of the women                           3.  Thinking about family and the role of

               on the ceremony of Hai Ba Trung 2018                   women in Vietnam and in Australia

                                                                      It is questioned what Vietnamese women
                1.  History of Women’s Day                            need  to  do  to  pay  respect  to  their
                          nd
                   Feb 22  1909 in New York                           ancestors and Hai Ba Trung?
                   1910 International Women Conference in             I  would  like  to  focus  on  the  role  of
                   Copenhagen                                         women in the family, the role of a wife,
                           th
                   Mar  8   1913  is  officially  declared            the  role  of  a  mother.  Australia  is  a
                   International   Women’s      Day.    The           country  of  freedom,  democracy,  and
                   Purposes are:                                      advancement  and  is  a  promising  land.
                                                                      Melbourne  has  been  voted  the  city  with
                1.  Equal right for women
                2.  Reducing  pay gap (14% UK 2017)                   the  highest  scores  of  Happiness  several
                3.  Women raised their voice on sex abuse             times. And Australians consider family as
                4.  Theme for 2018: Time is Now                       the foundation of a happy society.
                                                                      But  I  have  noticed  some  worrying
                2.  History of Hai Ba Trung                           statistics:  60%  divorce  rate  in  first
                                                                      marriage,  75%  divorce  rate  in  second
                   Hai Ba Trung (in Nôm language) are the             marriage and 10% divorce rate in the next
                   common  name  used  for  the  two  sisters         marriages.  Marriage  is  surprisingly
                   Trung  Trac  and  Trung  Nhi,  the  two            broken too easily. What are the reasons?
                   heroines of Vietnam. Hai Ba Trung were
                   known  as  the  leaders  of  the  revolution   4.  Suggested reasons:

                   against  Dong  Han  colony,  establishing  a     Too  much  freedom,  too  much  focus  on
                   kingdom with capital in Mê Linh. Trung             self, sexual desire rather than True Love
                   Trac  self-crowned  as  the  Queen  of  the      Lack of pre-marriage education for young
                   kingdom.  Hai  Ba  Trung’s  ruling  time  is       people. Lack of basic ethical education in
                   between the First Northern colony and the          high  school  education  program.  Lack  of
                   Second Northern colony in the history of           patience to maintain true love (It’s easy to
                   Vietnam.  According  to  Dai  Viet  Su  Ky         convince a lover but it’s hard to maintain
                   encyclopaedia,     Trung     Trac    was           a sweet-heart).
                   considered  a  King  in  Vietnam’s  history,     Young  people  have  not  learnt  the  more
                   namely Trung Nu Vuong.                             important job than their career: the task to
                   After the defeat against Dong Han enemy            be  a  wife/husband,  the  role  to  be
                   lead by Ma Vien, it was said that Hai Ba           father/mother, the task to be a role model
                   Trung, to avoid being handed over to the           for the next generations (the role of being
                   enemy,  killed  themselves  by  jumping            orange tree, lions, roses)
                   onto Hat Giang river. Hat Mon-Hat Giang          Once being graduated from high schools,
                   has  witnessed  the  revolution  of  Hai  Ba       universities, young people are very proud
                   against  Dong  Han.  It  is  also  the  place      of  themselves,  they  think  that  they  are
                   where  Hai  Ba  had  taken  their  lives.  Hat     better  than  their  parents.  They  do  not
                   Mon  Temple  where  people  worship  Hai           know  that  they  are  still  very  innocent,
                   Ba Trung is a special National Historical          walking  baby  steps  to  another  important
                   Monument      nowadays.    The    ancient          University,  the  Life  University.  They
                   Temple  has  many  old  tree  lines  and  is



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