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was historically discouraged but                          most part remains can be buried in a
            nowadays it is more widely accepted.                      cemetery lot or a cremation garden,
            In eastern religions such as Hinduism,                    interred in  a columbarium,  kept at
            Jainism,     Sikhism      and     Buddhism                home or scattered.
            cremation is mandated, while in Islam
            it is strictly forbidden. Orthodox Jews                   How can I be sure I receive the correct
            also forbid cremation; other sects of                     remains?
            Judaism support cremation, but burial                     All reputable cremation providers
            remains the preferred option.                             have developed rigorous sets of
                                                                      operating policies and procedures in
            Cremation FAQs                                            order to maximize the level of service
                                                                      and minimize the potential for human
                                                                      error. Since it is illegal to perform
            What is cremation?                                        more than one cremation at a time,
            Cremation is the process of reducing                      and the vast majority  of crematories
            the human body to bone  fragments                         can only cremate one body at a time,
            using high heat and flame. Cremation                      it is next to impossible to receive the
            is  not  the  final  disposition  of  the                 incorrect remains.
            remains, nor is it a type of funeral
            service.                                                  What do the cremated remains look

                                                                      like?
            Is a casket needed for cremation?                         Cremated remains resemble coarse
            No, a casket is not required. Most                        sand  and  are  whitish  to  light  grey
            states require an alternative container                   in color. The remains of an average
            constructed of wood or cardboard,                         sized adult usually weigh between 7
            however, in some states no container                      and 8 pounds.
            is required.

                                                                      Are    all   the     cremated       remains
            Is embalming required prior to
                                                                      returned?
            cremation?                                                With the  exception  of  minute  and
            No. In fact, it is against the law for a                  microscopic particles, which are
            funeral home to tell you otherwise.                       impossible  to  remove  from  the
                                                                      cremation chamber  and processing
            Can the family witness the cremation?                     machine, all of the cremated remains
            Yes, they can; some cremation                             are given back to the family.
            providers will allow family members to
            be  present when  the  body  is  placed                   Do I need an urn?
            in  the  cremation  chamber.  Some                        An urn is not required by law. However,
            religious groups even include this as                     an urn may be desired if there is to be
            part of their funeral custom.                             a memorial service or if the remains

                                                                      are to be interred in a cemetery. If an
            Can an urn be brought into church?                        urn is not purchased or provided by
            Nearly all Protestant Churches allow                      the family, the cremated remains will
            for the urn to present during the                         be returned in a temporary plastic
            memorial services. Most Catholic                          container.
            Churches also allow the remains to be
            present during the Memorial Mass. It
            is  encouraged  that  cremated  remains                   Eulogies
            be a part of a funeral as it provides a                   Giving a meaningful, moving eulogy
            focal point for the service.                              can be a nerve-wracking situation for
                                                                      even the most accomplished public
            What can be done with the cremated                        speaker, but it need not be. How can
            remains?                                                  you summarize somebody’s life in a
            While laws vary state by state, for the                   few short minutes, while being both


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