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was historically discouraged but                          most part remains can be buried in a
          nowadays it is more widely accepted.                      cemetery lot or a cremation garden,
          In eastern religions such as Hinduism,                    interred in  a columbarium,  kept  at
          Jainism,      Sikhism     and     Buddhism                home or scattered.
          cremation is mandated, while in Islam
          it is strictly forbidden. Orthodox Jews                   How can I be sure I receive the correct
          also forbid cremation; other sects of                     remains?
          Judaism support cremation, but burial                     All reputable cremation providers
          remains the preferred option.                             have developed rigorous sets of
                                                                    operating policies and procedures in
                                                                    order to maximize the level of service
          Cremation FAQs                                            and minimize the potential for human
                                                                    error. Since it is illegal to perform
          What is cremation?                                        more than one cremation at a time,
          Cremation is the process of reducing                      and the vast majority  of crematories
          the human body to bone  fragments                         can only cremate one body at a time,
          using high heat and flame. Cremation                      it is next to impossible to receive the
          is  not  the  final  disposition  of  the                 incorrect remains.
          remains, nor is it a type of funeral
          service.
                                                                    What do the cremated remains look
                                                                    like?
          Is a casket needed for cremation?                         Cremated remains resemble coarse
          No, a casket is not required. Most                        sand  and  are  whitish  to  light  grey
          states require an alternative container                   in color. The remains of an average
          constructed of wood or cardboard,                         sized adult usually weigh between 7
          however, in some states no container                      and 8 pounds.
          is required.
                                                                    Are     all   the    cremated       remains
          Is embalming required prior to                            returned?
          cremation?                                                With the  exception  of  minute  and
          No. In fact, it is against the law for a                  microscopic particles, which are
          funeral home to tell you otherwise.                       impossible  to  remove  from  the
                                                                    cremation chamber  and processing
          Can the family witness the cremation?                     machine, all of the cremated remains
          Yes, they can; some cremation                             are given back to the family.
          providers will allow family members to
          be  present when  the  body  is  placed                   Do I need an urn?
          in  the  cremation  chamber.  Some                        An urn is not required by law. However,
          religious groups even include this as                     an urn may be desired if there is to be
          part of their funeral custom.                             a memorial service or if the remains

                                                                    are to be interred in a cemetery. If an
          Can an urn be brought into church?                        urn is not purchased or provided by
          Nearly all Protestant Churches allow                      the family, the cremated remains will
          for the urn to present during the                         be returned in a temporary plastic
          memorial services. Most Catholic                          container.
          Churches also allow the remains to be
          present during the Memorial Mass. It
          is  encouraged  that  cremated  remains                   Eulogies
          be a part of a funeral as it provides a                   Giving a meaningful, moving eulogy
          focal point for the service.                              can be a nerve-wracking situation for
                                                                    even the most accomplished public
          What can be done with the cremated                        speaker, but it need not be. How can
          remains?                                                  you summarize somebody’s life in a
          While laws vary state by state, for the                   few short minutes, while being both


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