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APPENDIX 4 - HOW TO WORK WITH YOUNG CHILDREN                                                                           Dear children,


                  "DECLARING WAR" OR "SETTING OUT ON A JOURNEY"                                                                          I would love to get your ideas and suggestions for additional imps and magical

                      (The understanding that imps take over and cause trouble, and the                                                  powers together with drawings depicting the way you imagine them. I would
                                        unwillingness to take it any longer!)                                                            also love to hear about your personal journey to the Land of the Soul Creatures.
                                                                                                                                         Please write me your stories and examples about your personal experiences –
        In order for children to succeed in restoring internal control over their mind and spirit, they need magical                     when and where you discovered your magical powers and how you coped with
        powers to help fight the imps, and a decision not to let them take over and control their behavior.                              your imps when they tried to take over.
        This part of the process is very important: it is intended to muster the healthy belligerent forces
        of the child's developing ego. With many young children, the use of a "belligerent" language can
        prompt  them  into  action.  This  way,  we  channel  their  natural  aggressive  urges  into  something                               To share your stories with me please visit www.soulcreaturesland.com
        constructive rather than something destructive.                                                                                                                                Love, Efrat
        The declaration of war on the imps may be presented with a question addressed to the child: "Who
        do you want your behavior to be controlled by? You or your imp?" I recommend reinforcing this
        declaration by preparing an "imp warrior" badge or crown to be worn by the child.
        However, it is important to remember that dealing with imps does not necessarily have to be
        belligerent; sometimes it is much more effective to make friends with them or tame them. That is
        why the first stage of the process may be called "Embarking on a search for magical powers."



































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