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Rabbi Chayim Friedlander # רדנלדירפ םייח ברה
A Peaceful Home ךלהא םולש יכ תעדיו סרטנוק
ntroroctcon םינינעה יכות

94 ה ָשּׁ ִא ָה ףוּתּ ִשׁ .ז רמאמ

Introduction 98 .ל" ַצַז י ִק ְס ְב ֶי ְנ ַק י"ירגה ן ָר ָמ ב ָתּ ְכ ִמ ךְוֹתּ ִמ ע ַט ֶק י ִשׁי ִל ְשׁ ק ֶר ֶפּ

100 ה ָב ֲה ַא ָה תוֹדוֹסְי .א רמאמ
This essay was written with help from Hashem for the benefit of
Chatanim who are students of Torah who want to prepare themselves 104 בוֹטּ ַה ת ַר ָכּ ַה .ב רמאמ
as they approach their marriage. The purpose of this essay is to give
them the guidance by which they will be able to build their homes in י ֵה תִי ַבּ ַה ת ַג ָה ְנ ַה ְל ךְי ִר ָצּ ֶשׁ תוֹל ֲע ַמּ ַה י ָתוֹא .ג רמאמ
the way of Torah – which is – “Her ways are ways of pleasantness,
and all of her pathways are peace.” 2 112 'ה ת ַדוֹב ֲע ַל תוֹיּ ִדוֹסְי ַה תוֹל ֲע ַמּ ַה
In order to build a home from its inception on a pathway of 114 תוֹבוֹטּ ַה תוֹדּ ִמּ ַה ֵמ - וֹתּ ְשׁ ִא ְל ה ָב ֲה ַא .ד רמאמ
pleasantness the Chatan must prepare himself to learn very well
what his job is in building a home, to know well his obligations
relative to his future wife, and most importantly to recognize and
learn to be sensitive to her nature and her aspirations. He must 116 תוּשׁי ִא תוֹכ ְל ִה ֵמ ו"ט ק ֶר ֶפּ ףוֹס ם" ַבּ ְמ ַר ָה י ֵר ְב ִדּ ִמ י ִעי ִב ְר ק ֶר ֶפּ
recognize the challenges of life that are most likely to arise between
a husband and wife in order to prevent them, and if they should 118 ת ַח ַנ ְבּ רוּבּ ִדּ .א רמאמ
arise to be prepared to deal with them in order to remove them
before they become entrenched. 118 הָיוּא ְר ָה ה ָע ָשּׁ ַבּ ה ָח ָכוֹתּ .ב רמאמ

This essay will also help couples who have been married for 120 ה ָא ָנוֹא - ת ַח ַנ ְבּ אלֹּ ֶשׁ רוּבּ ִדּ .ג רמאמ
many years. More than this, with Hashem’s help in reading this
essay these couples will gain an immediate practical benefit from 124 תוֹפָי םי ִנ ָפּ ר ֶב ֵס .ד רמאמ
understanding their role in their relationship. However, because
of their immaturity Chatanim do not yet recognize their new role 130 וֹר ֵב ֲח ם ִע לֹע ְבּ אֹ ֵשוֹנ .ה רמאמ
and the new experiences which await them. For them many of
the topics in this essay are “solutions,” even before they are aware
of the problem, and so they cannot yet properly understand them.
Therefore, the Chatanim must understand that they will benefit very 140 ךְ ָבּ ל ָשׁ ְמִי אוּה ְו .א רמאמ י ִשׁי ִמ ֲח ק ֶר ֶפּ
much from what is written in this essay from the very first moment
144 םי ִפ ָס ְכּ ַה לוּה ִנ .ב רמאמ

146 תוּיּ ִנ ָחוּר ַעי ִפּ ְשׁ ַה ְל ה ָבוֹח ַה .ג רמאמ
2. Based on the pasuk in Mishle (3:17) which is discussing Torah. (Rabbi Yosef
Baraka)

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