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               Although, after the fact, the marriage is not considered a mistaken                    relatives who have a higher risk of giving birth to children
               transaction, it is possible that lechatchila, one should tell him.)                    with Down’s Syndrome.
                  The physician, however, has to warn the wife and her family that                B)    Should the physician tell the relatives that they have a higher
               they bring all the future children to be examined for congenital cat-                  probability of giving birth to a child with Down’s Syndrome?
               aracts immediately, so the doctors can surgically remove them. If the
               physician sees that the wife and her family are not reliable, then he is           C)     The parents of a child diagnosed with hemophilia refuse to
               obligated to tell the father everything in order to save the eyesight of             reveal to their relatives that they have a high chance of giving
               the future children.                                                                 birth to children with this disorder. What should the physician
                                                                                                    do? His options are as follows:

                   1    AnsweR to Question 2                                                        1.  To honor the parents’ request, and not to speak to the rela-
                                                                                                      tives.
               If, after the fact, the husband will not want to divorce his wife, one               2.  To tell the brothers about it, whether or not they ask for the
               should evade telling him the truth. If there is no way to do so, it is per-            information.
               missible to change the truth in order to maintain peace. As explained
               in Tractate Yevamos (65b), it is permissible for a person to alter the               3.  To tell the brothers about it, only if they ask about it.
               truth in order to keep the peace. Rav Nasan says: It is a mitzvah. D’vei                                          Dr. Avraham Sternberg
               Rav Yishmael learns: Great is peace, for even the Holy One, blessed be                                   Bikur Cholim Hospital, Jerusalem
               He, altered the truth for peace.
                                                                                                   1    AnsweR to Question A
                   1    AnsweR to Question 3
                                                                                               The genetic counselor is dealing with two problems here. A) between
               The girl should not conceal her blemish, as stated in Sefer Chassidim,          man and his fellow- there is a possibility of deception and a mistaken
               as above.                                                                       transaction (mekach ta’us) B) Between man and G-d- the mitzvah of
                                                                                               procreation.
                   1    AnsweR to Question 4                                                      Let us explain:
                                                                                                  Regarding the problem of deception and a mistaken transaction:
               One is obligated to reveal the blemish to potential spouses. Parents            If a couple married and now discovered that one of them is a carrier
               suffer a lot when they see their offspring groping in the dark and hav-         of a genetic disorder who will bring mentally retarded children into
               ing great difficulty in finding a spouse. A blind person is considered          the world, it is likely that the healthy spouse would not have agreed
               as dead, and there is a possibility here of a mekach ta’us (mistaken            to the marriage, had he/she known this beforehand. Therefore, the
               transaction). The physician is obligated to find a way to tell the poten-       marriage is invalid based on the law of a mistaken transaction, and
               tial spouse what is to be expected. If he remains silent, he is probably        they are living together without proper kiddushin.
               in violation of “Do not stand idly by the blood of your fellowman.”                It seems to me that even if there is only a 50% chance that they will
                  The preferred way is to convince the patient to tell his prospective         give birth to retarded children, there is still a possibility that it was a
               spouse himself, and in this merit, Hashem will have mercy on him.               mistaken transaction. It is likely that a person would refuse to take




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