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                                                                                     PEOPLE & ARTS Saturday 21 July 2018
            With singer Mary Gauthier, military veterans find a voice




            By MESFIN FEKADU                                                                                                    And they're into that. They
            Associated Press                                                                                                    want  to  continue  to  be  of
            NEW YORK (AP) — There's a                                                                                           service."
            date  on  Josh  Geartz's  cal-                                                                                      Geartz has seen the effect
            endar  that  the  former  U.S.                                                                                      the song he co-wrote, "Still
            Army  sergeant  has  been                                                                                           On  the  Ride,"  has  had  on
            looking forward to for quite                                                                                        others when he performed
            some time.                                                                                                          the  song  with  Gauthier  at
            Aug.     10    will   mark                                                                                          the  Grand  Ole  Opry  and
            Geartz's     fourth     re-                                                                                         Ryman Auditorium in Nash-
            treat  with  the  nonprofit                                                                                         ville  (he  plays  harmonica
            SongwritingWith:Soldiers  —                                                                                         on the track).
            his first session there in 2015                                                                                     "I had a female come up to
            saved his life. Literally.                                                                                          me after one of our shows,
            "I'd already attempted sui-                                                                                         she  goes,  'Can  I  give  you
            cide twice," the 38-year-old                                                                                        a hug? I just want to thank
            said, "both times were more                                                                                         you.
            of a reaction and wasn't a                                                                                          I haven't been able to show
            planned thing. It was more                                                                                          any emotion for years and I
            in  the  moment,  like,  'All                                                                                       was able to cry tonight,'" he
            right,  screw  this.'  So  I  was                                                                                   recalled.
            like,  'Third  time's  a  charm.                                                                                    "And then I had a lady call
            I'm going to get it right this                                                                                      me and say listening to the
            time.' I had my plan. I knew                                                                                        four-minute song answered
            when, where, how."                                                                                                  50  years  of  questions  she
            His wife had told him about                                                                                         had  about  her  father,"  he
            a  SongwritingWith:Soldiers                                                                                         added. "It kind of gave me
            session  coming  up  in  a                                                                                          a purpose and a mission to
            month  near  their  home  in                                                                                        support  and  promote  this
            Albany.  The  wheelchair-                                                                                           organization  that  helped
            bound  Geartz,  who  was                                                                                            save my life."
            in  the  army  from  1999  to                                                                                       Geartz, who was wounded
            2004  and  served  in  Iraq                                                                                         by an improvised explosive
            and Kosovo, eventually de-                                                                                          device  in  2003,  lugged  his
            cided to go. There, he met                                                                                          wheelchair  for  422  miles
            folk  singer-songwriter  Mary                                                                                       last  summer  for  veteran
            Gauthier.  He  credits  her                                                                                         suicide  awareness.  The  fa-
            with  changing  and  saving                                                                                         ther of two will return as a
            his life.                                                                                                           volunteer to the upcoming
            "I  think  that  once  you  get                                                                                     SongwritingWith:Soldiers
            to  that  point  where  you                                                                                         event,  giving  a  helping
            truly  believe  that  people                                                                                        hand to veterans in the way
            are better off without you,                                                                                         others  assisted  him.  Song-
            you're  at  your  lowest.  And                                                                                      writer  Georgia  Middleman
            then  I  think  some  of  that                                                                                      will  help  craft  songs  and
            started  to  change  a  bit   In this Feb. 8, 2018 photo, musician Mary Gauthier poses for a portrait in New York to promote her   the  retreat  also  includes
            when  I  told  Mary  every-  veteran inspired record "Rifles & Rosary Beads."                                       sessions  on  cooking,  yoga
            thing.  I  told  her  stuff  that  I                                                               Associated Press  and  videography.  Geartz
            didn't tell anyone, nobody                                                                                          will  teach  a  class  on  the
            knew, and she just basically  ganization.                 words. Music can come in  They've  taught  me  humil-     harmonica,  which  he  has
            gave  me  a  hug  and  said,  "Rifles  &  Rosary  Beads,"  and fill the gap where there  ity.  They've  taught  me  ser-  played since was 7.
            'Man that sucks, but I'm re-  the  critically  acclaimed  are no words. So I can find  vice, at a very deep level,  "It's like a big family reunion
            ally glad you're here.' And  11-song  project,  recently  the music, and all the song-  sacrifice.  They've  taught  —  one  of  the  family  re-
            I'm just like, 'Whoa,'" he re-  earned a nomination for al-  writers  can  find  the  music  me  consistency.  They've  unions you want to go to,"
            called.                      bum of the year at the 2018  that  sounds  like  what  the  taught me about love."     Geartz said.
            "I've  had  therapists  break  Americana Music Honors &  feeling is and that conveys  Gauthier  had  worked  with  For  Gauthier,  the  process
            down  and  cry  in  the  mid-  Awards, to be held Sept. 12  the feelings."             SongwritingWith:Soldiers for  "feels  like  my  passion  has
            dle  of  sessions  and  leave  in Nashville, Tennessee.   Gauthier wants to be clear  over  four  years,  complet-  collided with purpose."
            the room. So I'm expecting  "One of the beautiful things  —  though  she  knows  the  ing close to 15 sessions and  "I  am  very,  very  lucky  to
            something like that. Instead  about the way that it works  process  has  helped  veter-  writing roughly 40 songs.  have  been  given  this  op-
            I got support."              is  that  the  songwriters  are  ans — she, too, has learned  "I think we have a lot of sto-  portunity  to  midwife  these
            Geartz's  experience  has  not therapists. So we don't  so  much  while  listening  to  ries about soldiers, or about  songs  and  then  to  be  the
            been  repeated  by  other  have  a  duty  to  not  cry  or  their  stories  and  turning  war. I don't know if it's ever  one to bring them into the
            veterans,  who  have  found  to  assess  them.  You  know,  them into songs.           been  done  before  where  world. I feel a sense of right-
            peace     and    newfound  we're  just  songwriters,  so  "I  think  that's  important  it's  it's done with them, so that  ness  about  it,  that  I  have
            hope with the program and  I can cry if I need to, and  not couched as if I'm doing  these  are  their  words,"  she  mined  myself  thoroughly.
            Gauthier, who released an  I  do  cry.  We  all  cry,  and  this  Mother  Teresa  thing.  said.  "And  somewhere  in  I've said what I need to say
            album  this  year  exclusively  we cry together," Gauthier  It  doesn't  work  that  way,"  the  process  the  veteran  about  me.  And  the  next
            featuring  songs  co-written  said.                       the 56-year-old said with a  starts  to  see,  'Oh  my  God,  right thing for me as an art-
            with  veterans  and  their  "With  any  trauma,  it's  inef-  laugh. "I'm getting every bit  this  story  might  help  other  ist,  clearly,  is  to  help  give
            family  members  from  ses-  fable at its core, you can't  as much as I give. Soldiers  people. To tell it might be a  voice  to  other  people's
            sions  with  the  nonprofit  or-  find the words, there are no  have  taught  me  so  much.  continuation of my service.'  story."q
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