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               Saturday 30 december 2023

            Perspective: Children born poor have little margin for mistakes or bad

            decisions, regardless of race



            Continued from Front         tion, jobs, friends, neighbor-
                                         hoods,  adult  interventions,
            Some stories are burned into  hard work and good luck.
            memory, like the Washington,  We  say  people  can  be
            D.C., teenager who asked  whatever they want to be.
            his mom to send him out of  To a degree that is true, but
            the  region  to  escape  the  moving through the socio-
            violence.  He  spent  years  economic levels of America’s
            away only to come home  economics-based caste sys-
            one  weekend  to  plan  his  tem is like the Apollo moon
            high school graduation party  missions of my youth. Millions
            and be randomly stabbed to  of parts have to work per-
            death by a stranger.         fectly to get you there, and
            While I know some of those  back.
            back stories, Alfred’s is the  According  to  “  Race  and
            one I can personally trace  Economic  Opportunity  in
            from a decision made years  the United States: An Inter-
            ago  by  adults  to  gunshots  generational  Perspective,”
            near the end of a rundown  part of the groundbreaking
            street.                      Opportunity Insights project
            Alfred is my first cousin.   based at Harvard, only 2.5%
            When he was 13 my wife and  of Black kids born to a par-
            I tried to get legal custody  ent or parents in the bottom
            of  him  after  his  mom  was  quintile move to the top quin-  Associated Press reporter Gary Fields poses for a portrait at a public park, Wednesday, Dec. 20,
            murdered, but his guardian  tile  of  household  income.   2023, in Washington.
            said no.                     For white kids, the figure is                                                                      Associated Press
            I think about him often and  10.6%. What is more likely for   The  focus  on  the  statistics  My uncle, his dad, had done  to Maryland where we live.
            the decision that kept him  both is they will stay in the   tends to be on the racial dis-  what he could but was bro-  We wanted legal custody so
            from reaching escape veloc-  poorest quintile or, at best,   parity. I see the disparity, but  ken down from working hard  my work benefits could cover
            ity, the things you need to go  move up one level to lower   what I also see is that Black or  labor jobs, usually several at  him. We also wanted to be
            right to lift the weight of your  middle class. For white kids,   white, less than half of the kids  once and was living on limited  able to make decisions on
            birth circumstances off of you.  that figure is 53.4%, and for   born poor move up much.  income himself. He couldn’t  his behalf without unforeseen
            Those include family, educa-  Black kids, 75.4%.          Even if they make it one step,  promise his son much future.  bureaucratic or legal barriers
                                                                      a car repair, a missed day at  The first time I met him Alfred  that might arise.
                                                                      work or a high utility bill can  was a thin, gangly, very shy  My now dead uncle said yes
                                                                      begin a downward spiral.     kid who kept his head down,  but his message to me was Al-
                                                                      And there are millions born  avoiding  eye  contact.  He  fred’s now late-grandmother
                                                                      into  that  world,  although  spoke softly and slowly and  said no. Alfred was getting a
                                                                      we treat it like a moral fail-  was the target of bullies.  government check of some
                                                                      ing. One measure of Census  I don’t remember him smiling  sort. I don’t know how much it
                                                                      data shows more than 10.7  — ever. Around me, at least,  paid or what program it was.
                                                                      million children younger than  his nature was melancholy.  This year I asked the Social
                                                                      18 lived below the poverty  For Alfred, I was the cousin  Security Administration what
                                                                      level in 2022, and that figure is  who had a charmed life. The  it might have been and there
                                                                      undoubtedly higher because  truth is, for reasons I will never  were a couple of possibilities.
                                                                      millions more lived in places  comprehend,  I  had  nearly  As a minor, he could have
                                                                      where the incomes couldn’t  everything go right.          been  eligible  for  benefits
                                                                      be determined.               We love to talk about people  because of his dead mom.
                                                                      Millions of young people live  pulling themselves up by their  It also might have been Sup-
                                                                      in homes where social security  boot straps. A lot of people  plemental Security Income for
                                                                      payments, WIC, SNAP and  contributed to my boots and  some health problem he had.
                                                                      TANF, various food, nutrition  showed me how to use the  In a place where minimum
                                                                      and income assistance pro-   straps. There were teachers,  wage was $5.15 an hour at
                                                                      grams, are the order of the  friends, family, neighbors and  the time and people lived on
                                                                      day.                         luck  stirred  together.  That  the edge of financial ruin, it
              To our clients and to our readers,                      Poverty isn’t the purview of  mixture  was  added  to  the  did not matter how much, or
                                                                      one race. Neither is violent  foundation,  a  ninth-grade  for what. If you are born into a
              We  sincerely  thank  you  for  your  support  and  your   death. Socioeconomics is a  drop out unwed mom who  certain economic class eve-
              friendship.  We will be closed on Monday, January       good  predictor  for  victim-  truly valued education who  rything goes towards basics:
              1st, 2024 and will return to your doors, lobbies, and   hood  and  criminal  justice  married  a  good  man  who  food, rent, utilities, clothing.
              newsstands on Wednesday, January 3rd, 2024.             involvement, as well as de-  helped her raise me.         Alfred stayed in Louisiana.
                                                                      ficient health care and edu-  Alfred’s  grades  were  not  Over the years, he reached
              We wish you a joyous holiday season and a Happy         cational outcomes.           good. Something about the  adulthood and when I came
              New Year.                                               Alfred came into the world on  way he looked at me made  home I would give him what
                                                                      the bottom economic rung  me ask when he’d last had an  cash I had, especially when
              Stay safe!                                              and  when  he  was  13  the  eye exam. One optometrist  he had kids of his own. By
                                                                      critical decision was made  visit and a pair of glasses later  then he had a criminal record
              From Aruba Today and the Caribbean Speed Print-         that likely kept him there. His  he could see the blackboard.  but he treated me the same
              ing family                                              mom had been shot to death  My wife and I decided then.  and he checked on my mom:
                                                                      months before in Alexandria.  We wanted to bring him back  Aunt Shirley.q
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