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The m’zungu Christian Church & Africa


                                                                                     Homophobia & Hypocrisy


                  How on earth can you then expect Africans to give you immediate acceptance of such

            changes in public ‘morals’?
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            Societies change when they want to change. There is no rationality to why ‘women’s lib’ took

            the best part of 100 years after the time of the ‘suffragettes’ before it became ‘acceptable’.
                 Progress in the acceptance of a specific change in societal values is delayed as people

            divide into two camps. The idealists and the realists. Those who want the world to be perfect

            and those who see themselves as pragmatists.
                 It takes time and events, sometimes very unpleasant events, to create the circumstances

            where the ‘weight’ of the ‘idealists’ is sufficient to generate a wider level of acceptance. Some
            people might argue that this in itself is a true demonstration of democracy.

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            Not content with exporting your  'zuŋ u detritus to Africa, you export your own  'zuŋ u
            tribal wars !
                  Those of you who do not know Africa well can hardly be expected to understand the
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            perversity of the  'zuŋ u Christian Church in the way it exports its homophobia and the
            societal divisions that it generates.
                  Anyone who travels in Africa for any length of time will recognise that its a daily sight to

            see grown up African males walking hand in hand. Such men may be young or old, peasants
            or business men. It's a natural part of their culture. It does not in itself indicate any form of

            sexuality. It's a sign of friendship. Friendship between men. Friendship between schoolmates.

            Friendship between people of power. Friendship between....whatever.
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                  As a  'zuŋ u holding hands with another male is uncomfortable to me. And yet if I visit
            a village after a long period of absence, it can be quite normal for someone to recognise me
            and seek to hold my hand. And to walk me through the village holding my hand.

                  In doing this, he is as much showing everyone that if they want to do some business

            with me they need to go through him. Yes, it is showing every other villager that I can be
            treated as a friend, but it has other purposes.
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