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For instance, your partner asks you “What’s bothering you?” And you say “Nothing,” and then they go off and play Final Fantasy (a video game) or check their “feeds” (ugh I hate “feeds”) for three hours. Then when your partner asks again you can say:
“It really bothers me when you check your feeds.”
Life is short and you want your relationships to last long. So:
Stop checking your “feeds.”
Stop saying there is nothing wrong when there is.
One more thing. When you ask your partner what is wrong and they tell you, listen to them. Don’t come up with something that is bothering you just to show they aren’t perfect either. If you do that you are committing “relationship jerkery” which isn’t even a real thing. It just means you are being a jerk.
Get to the error, malfeasance, relationship violation, crime or whatever, then get to the forgiveness. Then try to remember why you love one another.
Forgiveness Is An Attempt to Preserve A Loving Relationship When It Falters
One day, after I am dead, I will forgive the bagel guy. I never loved him, never dedicated myself to him, never wanted my relationship with him to last more than three minutes. When you love someone
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