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Marici M Corneli in conversation with Adv Chris Maree.
        GOOD NEWS FOR CHILDREN AND



        PARENTS IN DIVORCE




              he book “I want         was birthed through a book      may find this book helpful or/
              to tell you” was        called “I want to tell you.”    is it aimed at?                      The journey of families in
        Tlaunched recently at          We read the story of Austin
        the UPPERcase bookshop in     and Aidah and their parents,   In her reply Marici mentioned,    divorce and how things changed
        Menlyn Maine by the director of   Justin and Julia, in a colourful   “The book started a year ago          for everyone….
        Family Assist Marici M Corneli.                             and kept me busy through the
                                      comic style way. While you    Covid-19 period. I decided to
          The book is a wonderful tool   love the pictures you excitedly   write the book to help children
        for couples and children caught   turn the page to see how it all   and parents in divorce.           By telling someone the
        in the animosity that goes hand-  unfolds.                                                   book becomes a tool to open a line
        in-hand with divorce.                                        Children that can read will
                                       You learn how to tell and    enjoy the book, but mediators,
          Looking at South African    what to tell… The book helps   ‘voice of the child’ practitioners,   of communication in different
        divorce statistics seven of   to build confidence as a maybe   teachers, social workers, and
        every ten children in a school   soon to be divorced or as “I   psychologists can use it as a                 situations.
        classroom are from a divorce-  know someone who needs to    tool to explain the outcome of
        household.                    read this”.                   divorce to children who cannot
          As divorce is still a subject that   Children think, “I get two of   read. And the book becomes
        many people avoid, parents in   everything… parents think, “I   a tool to communicate with
        divorce will find this book very   feel so guilty”, but maybe this   yourself and others.
        helpful.                      can help.                      The obvious question will be
          Marici says, “Let me tell you   In an interview with Adv Chris   where can we buy the book, and
        a story…about a boy and girl   Maree, he asked some questions:   how much will it cost?
        who grew up, got married and   ■   Looking at this wonderful    “I want to tell you” is available
        divorced and how the kids got     little book, I can just imagine    in English and Afrikaans and
        stretched by their decisions.     how much work went into it.   can be bought from several
        Grown-ups need to understand                                bookshops and online from
        that they have to involve the   ■   How long have you been    the Family Assist webpage
        children in decisions that      working on this book?       (www.familyassist.co.za) or the
        concern them, by telling them.   ■   What made you decide to    UPPERcase webpage https://
        We all have stories and listen     write the book?          uppercasebooks.co.za/
        to stories and in my story, hope   ■   What age group of children    for R195. 
































         “I want to tell you” can be bought from several bookshops and online.                    Marici M Corneli at the launch of her book ‘I want to tell you”.




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