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Pete Markenstein


 Together







 Alone                                    like to write songs about          like to think of it as an



                                          life’s ups and downs, highs
                                                                             a periodicrelationship
                                       I and lows, adventures and            opportunity for everyone to do
                                        toils… subjects everyone can         “reboot.”  It’s the one day a
                                        relate to in one way or              year that’s literally all about
                                        another.                             celebrating the emotional
                                                                             connections between people.
                                        One of the most universally
                                        relatable themes in almost all       “Together Alone” is intended
                                        forms of entertainment,              to be a light-hearted reminder
                                        musical and otherwise, is that       to couples young and old that
                                        which Rupert Holmes                  if you’re sharing your life with
                                        memorialized so indelibly in         another person, no matter
                                        the People’s Choice Award’s          where you are on that path,
                                        Favorite New Song of 1979,           it’s important to regularly put
                                        “The Pina Colada Song.”  It          time aside for just the two of
                                        recounts the inevitable              you.
                                        relationship journey of
                                        so many couples for whom,            Though there’s an
                                        over time, complacency               unmistakable reference to
                                        replace the more intense             the continuing mportance of
                                        connection between the two           physical closeness in
                                        of them that was there when          committed relationships, the
                                        their romance was young and          larger message of the song is
                                        new.                                 that the real key to
                                                                             relationship endurance
                                        Most of the time, that waning        throughout all the challenges
                                        of emotional intensity isn’t the  life throws at you is simply
                                        result of anything intentional,      this:
                                        overt or dramatic.  It’s simply
                                        the product of comfort,              Treat your most important
                                        familiarity, and security—all of  relationship as an ongoing
                                        which are good.  The problem         journey… one with the
                                        is that’s it’s justhuman nature      unwavering objective of
                                        to invest more time and ener-        seeking out and treasuring
                                        gy on things that need to be         every opportunity to be in the
                                        fixed than on things that are…       moment together where ever
                                        well… “just fine.”                   you encounter joy and
                                                                             happiness along the way.
                                        While there’s no shortage of
                                        folks who pooh pooh                  Happy Valentine’s Day, to one
                                        Valentine’s Day as just              and all.
                                        another made up holiday
                                        intended to boost the sales of       Check out this link for video to
                                        candy and greeting cards, I          song....




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