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ǁŝůů ŽŶůLJ ďĞ Śŝƚ ŝĨ ƐŚĞ ĚŽĞƐͿ͘ dŚŝƐ ĂƩĂĐŚ- ƚĞŶ ĐƌLJ ďĞĨŽƌĞ ƚŚĞ ŵŽƚŚĞƌ ůĞŌ ĂŶĚ ĂŌĞƌ
ment style is not only painful to grow up she returned.
with, it also teaches children not to trust ůŽƚ ŽĨ ƉĂƌĞŶƚƐ ǁŚŽ ƌĞĂĚ ĂďŽƵƚ ĂƩĂĐŚ-
those around them, making it very hard ŵĞŶƚ ƚŚĞŽƌŝĞƐ ďĞĐŽŵĞ ǀĞƌLJ ĂŶdžŝŽƵƐ͗
ĨŽƌ ƚŚĞŵ ƚŽ ĐƌĞĂƚĞ ŶĞǁ ƌĞůĂƟŽŶƐŚŝƉƐ ŝŶ are researchers saying that how parents
the future. ŝŶƚĞƌĂĐƚ ǁŝƚŚ ƚŚĞŝƌ ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ ĨŽƌ ƚŚĞ ĮƌƐƚ
,Žǁ ĚŽĞƐ ƚŚĂƚ ŝŶĨĂŶƚͲƐƚƌĂŶŐĞ ƐŝƚƵĂƟŽŶ few years of life determines the way
Įƚ ŝŶƚŽ Ăůů ŽĨ ƚŚŝƐ͍ tŚĂƚ ƉƐLJĐŚŽůŽŐŝƐƚƐ children will interact with other people
found when they were studying the for the rest of their lives? Yes, but, Seigel
ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ ŝƐ ƚŚĂƚ ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ ǁŝƚŚ ĚŝīĞƌĞŶƚ Ăƚ- and Hartzell write, “Research shows that
ƚĂĐŚŵĞŶƚƐ ƌĞƐƉŽŶĚĞĚ ĚŝīĞƌĞŶƚůLJ ǁŚĞŶ ŽƵƌ ƌĞůĂƟŽŶƐŚŝƉƐ ǁŝƚŚ ƉĂƌĞŶƚƐ ĐŚĂŶŐĞ
their mothers returned to the room af- ĂŶĚ ĂƐ ƚŚĞLJ ĚŽ͕ ƚŚĞ ĐŚŝůĚ͛Ɛ ĂƩĂĐŚŵĞŶƚ
ter a three minute absence. Securely changes. This means it is never too late
ĂƩĂĐŚĞĚ ŝŶĨĂŶƚƐ ǁĞŶƚ ƐƚƌĂŝŐŚƚ ƚŽ ƚŚĞŝƌ ƚŽ ĐƌĞĂƚĞ ƉŽƐŝƟǀĞ ĐŚĂŶŐĞ ŝŶ Ă ĐŚŝůĚ͛Ɛ
mothers and were quickly soothed. ůŝĨĞ͘͟ tŚŝůĞ ŽƵƌ ŝŶŝƟĂů ĂƩĂĐŚŵĞŶƚƐ ĂƌĞ
They believed that their mothers could extremely important, and do set the
help them overcome discomfort and ĨŽƵŶĚĂƟŽŶƐ ĨŽƌ ƚŚĞ ĐŚŝůĚ͛Ɛ ĨƵƚƵƌĞ ŝŶƚĞƌ-
ĨĞĂƌ͘ ǀŽŝĚĂŶƚ ĂƩĂĐŚĞĚ ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ ǁĞƌĞ ĂĐƟŽŶƐ͕ ƚŚĞLJ ĐĂŶ ďĞ ĐŚĂŶŐĞĚ ƚŚƌŽƵŐŚ
ŶŽƚ ĚŝƐƚƌĞƐƐĞĚ ǁŚĞŶ ƚŚĞŝƌ ŵŽƚŚĞƌƐ ůĞŌ ůĞĂƌŶŝŶŐ ƚŚĞ Ɛ ŽĨ ĂƩĂĐŚŵĞŶƚ͘ zŽƵ
the room, nor were they happy when ĐĂŶ ůĞĂƌŶ ƚŽ ĂƩƵŶĞ LJŽƵƌƐĞůĨ ƚŽ LJŽƵƌ ĐŚŝů-
Bulletin
they returned. They seemed to be say- dren’s needs, and they in turn can learn
ŝŶŐ͕ ͞KƵƌ ŝŶƚĞƌĂĐƟŽŶƐ ŝŶ ƚŚĞ ƉĂƐƚ ǁĞƌĞ ƚŽ ďĂůĂŶĐĞ ƚŚĞŝƌ ďŽĚŝĞƐ͕ ĞŵŽƟŽŶƐ ĂŶĚ
not useful to me, so why should I care ŵŝŶĚƐ͕ ĂŶĚ ĐŽŚĞƌĞŶƚůLJ ĐƌĞĂƚĞ ƉŽƐŝƟǀĞ
ŝĨ LJŽƵ ĂƌĞ ŚĞƌĞ Žƌ ŶŽƚ͍͟ ŵďŝǀĂůĞŶƚ- ŝŶƚĞƌƉĞƌƐŽŶĂů ƌĞůĂƟŽŶƐŚŝƉƐ͘ ůů ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ
ůLJ ĂƩĂĐŚĞĚ ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ ǁĞƌĞ ĚĞƐƉŽŶĚĞŶƚ deserve to feel safe, and have the op-
ǁŚĞŶ ƚŚĞŝƌ ŵŽƚŚĞƌƐ ůĞŌ͕ ďƵƚ ĚŝĚ ŶŽƚ ƉŽƌƚƵŶŝƚLJ ƚŽ ďƵŝůĚ ďĞĂƵƟĨƵů ĂŶĚ ŚĞĂůƚŚLJ
calm down when they returned. Disor- ĨƌŝĞŶĚƐŚŝƉƐ ĂŶĚ ĐŽŶŶĞĐƟŽŶƐ͘
ŐĂŶŝnjĞĚ ĂƩĂĐŚŵĞŶƚ ĐŚŝůĚƌĞŶ ǁŽƵůĚ ŽĨ-

Ŷ ĂĐĐůĂŝŵĞĚ ĞĚƵĐĂƚŽƌ ĂŶĚ ĞĚƵĐĂƟŽŶ ĐŽŶƐƵůƚĂŶƚ͕ DƌƐ͘ ZŝŅĂ ^ĐŚŽŶĨĞůĚ ŚĂƐ ƐĞƌǀĞĚ
ƚŚĞ :ĞǁŝƐŚ ĐŽŵŵƵŶŝƚLJ ĨŽƌ ĐůŽƐĞ ƚŽ ƚŚŝƌƚLJ LJĞĂƌƐ͘ ^ŚĞ ĨŽƵŶĚĞĚ ĂŶĚ ĚŝƌĞĐƚƐ ƚŚĞ ǁŝĚĞůLJ
ĂĐĐůĂŝŵĞĚ ĞĚƵĐĂƟŽŶĂů ƉƌŽŐƌĂŵ͕ ^K^͕ ƐĞƌǀŝĐŝŶŐ Ăůů ŐƌĂĚĞ ůĞǀĞůƐ ŝŶ ƐĞĐƵůĂƌ ĂƐ ǁĞůů ĂƐ
,ĞďƌĞǁ ƐƚƵĚŝĞƐ͘ ŬƌŝĂŚ ĂŶĚ ƌĞĂĚŝŶŐ ƐƉĞĐŝĂůŝƐƚ͕ ƐŚĞ ŚĂƐ ŐŝǀĞŶ ĚLJŶĂŵŝĐ ǁŽƌŬƐŚŽƉƐ
ĂŶĚ ŚĂƐ ƐĞƚ ƵƉ ƌĞĂĚŝŶŐ ůĂďƐ ŝŶ ŵĂŶLJ ƐĐŚŽŽůƐ͘ /Ŷ ĂĚĚŝƟŽŶ͕ ƐŚĞ ŽīĞƌƐ ĞǀĂůƵĂƟŽŶƐ
'͘ ͘ ͘ ƉƌĞƉĂƌĂƟŽŶ͕͕ ƐŽĐŝĂů ƐŬŝůůƐ ƚƌĂŝŶŝŶŐ ĂŶĚ ƐŚŝĚĚƵĐŚ ĐŽĂĐŚŝŶŐ͕ ĨŽĐƵƐŝŶŐ ŽŶ ďƵŝůĚ-
ŝŶŐ ƐĞůĨ-ĞƐƚĞĞŵ ĂŶĚ ƐĞůĨ-ĂǁĂƌĞŶĞƐƐ͘ ^ŚĞ ĐĂŶ ďĞ ƌĞĂĐŚĞĚ Ăƚ ϳϭϴ-ϯϴϮ-ϱϰϯϳ Žƌ Ăƚ ƌŝŅĂ-
ƐĐŚŽŶĨĞůĚΛŐŵĂŝů͘ĐŽŵ ͘ zŽƵ ĐĂŶ ǀŝĞǁ ƚŚĞ ǁĞď Ăƚ ƌŝŅĂƐĐŚŽŶĨĞůĚƐŽƐ͘ĐŽŵ͘

ZĞŐŝƐƚĞƌ ŶŽǁ ĨŽƌ Ă DŝŶĚƐĞƚƐ ĂŶĚ , ǁŽƌŬƐŚŽƉ ďLJ ƌ͘ ZŽďĞƌƚ ƌŽŽŬƐ ŽŶ
EŽǀĞŵďĞƌ ϭϯ͕ ϮϬϭϴ͘ WůĞĂƐĞ ĐĂůů DƌƐ͘ ^ĐŚŽŶĨĞůĚ Ăƚ ϳϭϴ-ϯϴϮ-ϱϰϯϳ ĨŽƌ ŵŽƌĞ ŝŶĨŽ͘

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