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                                                  -   the  other  person  speaks  about  their
                                                      friends. Does he have friendships that
             empathy gap leads to mistakes in judg-   have lasted more than a few months or
             ment and failures of empathy. But once   years? This indicates the ability to en-
             we understand how the hot-cold empa-
             thy gap works, we can use it to teach                                          -
             empathy.
             Understanding  the  hot-cold  empathy    People who have social anxiety will of-
             gap can help those in shidduchim com-    ten freeze up in the face of new and dif-
                                                  -   ferent people.  Social anxiety can inhib-

                                                      person; however, learning to overcome
             young adults react appropriately in new   this phobia can be learned.
                           Bulletin

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             should have in order to have a success-  language.  Through  appropriate  use  of
                                                      eye  contact  and  body  language,  it  is
             looking  for  a  spouse,  you  should  look   easy to understand the other person’s
             for social intelligence as well. But, what
                                                      one can learn how to conduct himself
             how can you recognize it in others?
                                                      order to put himself in the best light.
                                                      Is there a science to social skills? Abso-
             and  sustain  friendships.  People  who   lutely – and once you master the rules,
             have strong social networks of friends                                         -
             and family clearly are able to have long-  fect match.










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