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DATING CORNER

15 Things Ambitious Girls Do

A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating
(
By Kim Quindlen)

11. They know that sometimes they have
READY, GET, SET, SHARE
(By Merhawit ፦Merhawit1986@aol.com) 6. They’ll still have a lot of other things a hard time opening up in the beginning.
going on besides you. They take dating
They’re used to being in control, so when
1- Their relationship will not take up seriously. But they’re also passionate they’re not, it’s a little disorienting. But
100% of their life, but they will put about their careers and friends and fam- they enjoy the challenge of trying to get
100% into their relationship. It’s im- ily and hobbies. When they’re dating, better, so it’s something they’re always
portant to ambitious girls to have oth- ambitious girls are looking for someone keen to work on.
er priorities and things going on out- who’s not only going to support that,
side of their relationship. But that but someone who’s going to love them 12. They won’t ask you to choose be-
doesn’t mean they won’t give it their all the more for it. tween them and your other priorities, be-
cause they’re too busy having priorities of
all when it comes to being happy with
someone. 7. They don’t hold it against you if their own.

you’re not interested. They know what

2. They’re not looking for a challenge, they want, and if you’re not interested, 13. Ambitious girls are attracted to people
but they are looking for someone to they’re just happy that you’re not wast- who have goals and aspirations – people
challenge them. They’re not interested ing any more of their time. who want more than an average existence.
in the chase or winning the game. But They don’t need you to be the CEO of a
they’re interested in being with some- 8. They’re not looking to be a trophy Fortune 500 or an insanely successful en-
one who’s going to challenge them to wife. The idea of playing backseat to trepreneur. They just want to know you
be better and to grow every day. their companion is nauseating to an care about something that matters and are
ambitious girl. They’re looking for
willing to work for it.
3. Romance usually means something someone who is going to be their part-
different to ambitious girls. They love ner, not their leader. 14. They’re not going to wait forever.
They’ll let you know, one way or another,
dates and surprises just like the next
girl. But in their minds, the most ro- 9. Ambitious girls know that being that they like you. They’re never in a rush
mantic thing in the world is being with tough and being emotional aren’t mutu- to jump into a relationship, but they’re
someone who they can truly relate to, ally exclusive. Ambitious girls are also practical about where they are in their
and someone who supports them in strong, confident, and intelligent. They lives and when it’s time to move on. If
everything that they do. know how to handle themselves. But you like them, do something about it.
they’re aware that that doesn’t mean
4. They’re not afraid to tell you when they can’t be vulnerable or emotional. 15. They’re less worried about a fairytale
they like you. If they think this thing One of the reasons they feel comforta- romance and more concerned with find-
has a chance, they’re not going to sit ble dating is because they know how to ing someone who will simply make them
back and play coy and always wait for be tough without feeling the need to happy. They’re not preoccupied with a
you to make the first move. They’re apologize for having emotions. huge diamond ring, an over-the-top wed-
going to be straight-up with you, and
ding, and a ridiculous love story they can
you can do with that what you want. 10. A good conversation in their eyes tell their friends. They just want to be
doe
sn’t revolve around how much with someone who will love them for
5. They don’t play games. There’s no money you make or how successful you who they are, and never ask them to stop
“wait two hours to text back” guide- are. They’re more interested in hearing following their dreams.
lines that they believe they have to fol- what makes you tick, what inspires you,
low. Ambitious girls do what they want what gets your blood flowing, and what
when they want, because they don’t you’re passionate about.
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have time for arbitrary dating rules.

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