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English story
Sometimes children might touch each other’s because scolding a child for masturbating
bodies or kiss might make them connect their behavior to sexual issues.
to pretend to be adults while playing house.
Please let them know that only grown-ups Pg 20
that really love each other should act that way.
“Ga-eul, how does it feel to touch your pee-pee?
I tried it when I was younger, and it felt good.
Pg 14 Oh, by the way, the correct name for your pee-pee is
Play time is over, and now it’s art class. penis.”
Hajoon is making a robot with rubber clay. “Yeah, it feels good, but sometimes it hurts.”
Yuh-reum is drawing her parents’ face. “It’s not a bad thing to touch your penis,
but touching it too often or aggressively might cause a
Pg 15 disease.”
Dad said in a gentle voice.
Oh? Even though there is a paper in front of him,
Ga-eul isn’t drawing anything.
Instead, he has his hands in his pants, _TIP
touching his pee-pee. Try playing sports or doing an activity with your children
that requires more physical movement.
Pg 16 It’s also a good idea to turn their attention to fun activities
such as playing with blocks, puzzles, or rubber clay.
“Ga-eul, is drawing not fun?
Do you want to play with rubber clay with Hajoon?”
Teacher took Ga-eul to the rubber clay table. Pg 22
Ga-eul took his hands out of his pants “Do you want to build a house?”
and excitedly made different animals. Dad brought a giant box from the balcony.
It was the refrigerator box,
_TIP so it was big enough for even Dad to fit inside.
Don’t blame or scold when you see a child
making masturbatory motions. Pg 23
However, let them know that it’s not good to do it Huff, puff!
when there’s other people watching, Dad and Ga-eul are making the house
and too much might be painful. by cutting, folding, and taping the box.
And then, naturally lead them to a different activity. Ga-eul is sweating a bucket.
Pg 18 Pg 24
Ga-eul came back home. A cool house was finished.
Dad is reading the newspaper, and mom is reading On the paper box house,
a book. the family hung up a doorplate that said “Ga-eul Jung”.
Ga-eul was reading a picture book, but he got bored.
His hand reached under his pants naturally. Pg 25
(( “I want to sleep in this house tonight.”
Pg 19 Ga-eul popped into his box house and laid down.
It’s fun to touch your pee-pee when you’re bored. Ga-eul had huffed, puffed and sweated to build the
While touching his pee-pee, house,
Ga-eul made eye contact with his dad.' and he fell fast asleep as soon as he laid down.))
_TIP
Child masturbation isn’t from a sexual fantasy,
but is just a behavior that feels good and reduces
anxiety.
Parents must be careful,
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