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of wakefulness of mind, alertness-  an   the mind, developing self-awareness and   The Result
 intrinsic awareness.  Mindfulness practice   developing  loving kindness.  These aim   Chart 1 and 2 below, are detailed   Overall, the children reported a 23 percent
 is  usually  directed  to  a  specific  ‘anchor’   to provide  children  with the strategies   breakdowns  of the number  of stickers   increase in positive emotions and 59

 such as the breath, body sensation or   of ‘coming back’ and attending  to their   chosen for  each emotion when they   percent decrease in negative  emotions
 mental content which serves as a means   experiences with love and care.    check-in and check-out respectively. The   over the programme,  as measured  by
 of ‘coming back’ to the present moment   X-Axis shows the  various emotions and   the number of  stickers associated with
 and  may further leads  to calmness  and   The topics covered over the eight   the  Y-Axis the total number of stickers   positive and negative emotions that they

 stability.   weeks included: (1) Introduction to   throughout the entire programme. Among   stick in their logbooks  during  check-in
 mindfulness practice, (2)  Knowing the   the negative emotions, ‘Worried’ and   before the training session and check-out
 Loving Kindness is a ‘state of mind which   ‘present’ moment’,(3) Developing stability   ‘Lousy’ are prominent at check-in but drop   after the training session.
 aspires that all sentient beings may enjoy   and attention, (4)  Awareness of body   distinctively from 27 stickers to 7 stickers

 happiness’  and compassion, ‘the wish   sensations (through mindful eating), (5)   and 47 stickers to 3 stickers respectively
 that all sentient beings may be free from   Awareness of  thoughts and emotions,   when checking out.
 sufferings’.  (6) Introduction to loving  kindness, (7)
                                      Chart 1: Breakdown of each emotion when check-in
 Sending  loving kindness to oneself and

 Loving  Kindness  Meditation  (LKM) is a   others, (8) Celebrating success.
 technique to  cultivate and  habituate the
 mind to have good will towards self and   The children (participants) were given a
 others especially in the mist of suffering.   logbook with a set of stickers with different

 The commonly used method is to focus   facial expressions and the corresponding
 on good  will  and  send  good wishes  by   words that relate to the facial expressions
 generating  silent phrases such as ‘May   to identify and describe their experiences
 I/you be well and happy’, ‘May I/you be   immediately before and after the M.I.L.K.

 free from fear and worry’. It is a way of   training sessions. They were also invited
 learning to soothe oneself and feel safe   to narrate their experiences next to any
 which helps one to develop a kinder intra   chosen  sticker in their logbook,  which
 and inter relationship.  While Mindfulness   was optional.  Chart 2:  Breakdown of each emotion when check-out

 meditation  creates a ‘still  quiet  place’,
 LKM enhances  this place with warmth
 and  love  and  so enables  one  to stay
 longer in this quiet place.


 The Programme

 M.I.L.K. was conducted twice-weekly over
 eight weeks, with a total of 60 minutes of

 activity-based learning  per week. It  has
 three key components  namely, calming
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