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Tolerance: What’s in a word?



               By Vijaya Samarawickrama
                                                                      Dharma Thoughts








                                                 In conjunction with the Metta     It means ‘to suffer, to be’ or ‘to
                                                 Convention which was held in      be done’ or ‘to put up with’. The
                                                 Putra Jaya on November 16-17,     obvious implication of this is that
                                                 2018, the organizers also hosted   the object ‘tolerated’ is somehow
                                                 an interfaith forum on the theme:   painful to the person or group by
                                                 Opening of hearts: Embracing      whom it is tolerated. This is the
                                                 Diversity of Cultures, Races and   crux of the problem: the attitude
                                                 Religions. Eight panellists spoke   of ‘putting up with’ something
                                                 briefly on their respective religions   one regards as disagreeable and
                                                 (including the indigenous) and a   even repulsive in the interest of
                                                 considerable amount of time was   social harmony. Tolerance like this
                                                 taken up to touch on the subject of   can be downright harmful and no
                                                 tolerance. Many speakers agreed   number of alternative words will
               Vijaya Samarawickrama is an       with the Hindu representative who   eradicate the deep-rooted sense of
               accomplished Dharma educator,     voiced his dissatisfaction with the   superiority one cherishes regarding
               teacher, and author. He retired after   often touted slogan that religious   one’s own set of beliefs in contrast
               60 years of teaching in schools,   tolerance is practiced in Malaysia.   to the beliefs of others. This sense
               colleges and universities. However,   He argued that mere tolerance   of superiority becomes even more
               he continues to give Dharma talks   of minority religions implied an   dangerous when it is allowed
               throughout the country, participates   element of condescension on the   to settle down to complacency
               in inter-faith dialogues, speaks at   part of the majority religion. Other   because it will create enormous
               various international seminars,   speakers agreed with him and      rifts in society overtime.
               and writes for Buddhist books and   suggested that alternative words
               journals.
                                                 like ‘embrace’ or ‘empathize’ be   How should Buddhists view this
                                                 used. The forum ended with no     problem? (We say ‘should’ because
                                                 consensus which meant that we     sadly, as recent events have shown,
                                                 were no nearer to finding a solution   ‘Buddhists’ can be as intolerant as
                                                 to the problem which had plagued   any of their co-religionists on this
                                                 our nation for sixty years.       issue when power is in their hands.
                                                                                   We can ask this question in another
                                                 Perhaps due too time constraints   way: According to the Dhamma,
                                                 the underlying issues behind this   what should be our attitude
                                                 state of affairs were not addressed.   towards those who profess views
                                                 Why is there a need for tolerance   other than our own?
                                                 in the first place especially in
                                                 a religious setting where our     The ultimate goal of the Buddhist
                                                 common humanity is always         Path is the attainment of Wisdom
                                                 stressed? Perhaps an examination   and Compassion by destroying
                                                 of the word ‘tolerance’ could help   the three hindrances of Ignorance,
                                                 us see the problem in a clearer   Greed and Hatred. Wisdom and
                                                 light. ‘Tolerate’ comes from the   Ignorance are diametrically
                                                 Latin word which means ‘to bear’.   opposed. It is when we view
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