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A Rare Mother-in-law








                  hat can one say about  we are mere mortals with emo-
           Wa mother-in-law (MIL)  tions that seem to ebb and flow
        like no other? I met her first at  like the mighty waves. I have of-
        my wedding reception where her  ten wondered how she brought
        calmness and sweetness seemed a  up eight children, a daunting
        total antithesis of the image one  task in today’s times. One would
        has of a MIL. Ammachy has treat-  need the patience of Job and the
        ed her daughters-in-law with the  strength of a Hercules to do that!
        same sensitivity and firmness that   Ammachy’s calmness matched
        she treated her lone daughter and  Ichacha’s (her husband’s) liveli-
        that was an eye-opener.          ness and temper. They were the
           Over the years, we have all  Ying and Yang, the Ebony and
        tried to imbibe her sweetness,  Ivory who “lived together in per-
        serenity and saintliness, but then,  fect harmony” and the children


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