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a gift. Seeing illness as a misfortune, especially one that is undeserved,

                    may obstruct the healing system. Coming to see the illness as a gift that
                    allows you to grow may unlock it.

                    If you see your problems as curses, the motivation you’re looking for in life
               will be hard to find. If you learn to love the opportunities your problems present,
               then your motivational energy will rise.




               49. Remind your mind



                    Perhaps you have noted an idea in this book, or another recent book you’ve
               read, that you want to hold on to. It might be an idea that you knew, the moment
               you saw it, would always be useful to you. You might even have underlined it
               for future reference. But what if the book goes on the shelf, or gets loaned to a
               friend, and is forevermore out of sight and out of mind? This is a very common
               experience, but there is a remedy: start treating self-motivational ideas as if they
               were songs.


                    You can find ways to rewind these ideas so they’ll play again and again until
               you can’t get them out of your head. That’s how belief systems are restructured
               to suit our goals. Place the thought you want to remember into the jingle track in
               your brain so that it can’t get out.

                    You can create a new self by learning the beliefs you want to live by—one
               thought at a time. Learn these thoughts as you would the lyrics for a song you
               had to perform on stage. A friend of mine used to learn his parts in musicals by
               placing  index  cards  with  song  lyrics  all  over  his  office,  home,  and  bathroom
               mirror.  He  sometimes  had  them  on  the  dashboard  of  his  car.  Why?  He  was
               making a conscious visual effort to reach the backside of his own mind.

                    The trick is to keep this motivation going, to deliberately feed your spirit
               with the optimistic ideas you want to live by. Any time a thought, sentence, or

               paragraph inspires you or opens up your thinking, you need to capture it, like a
               butterfly in a net, and later release it into your own field of consciousness.

                    For me, discovering an exciting idea in a book or magazine is a true peak
               experience. It makes the world bright and comprehensible. I get that tingle in my
               spine. I get that “Oh, yes!” feeling. The more I deliberately fill my mind with the
               words and phrases that originally stirred the peak experience, the easier it is to
               remember that life is good.
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