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Colin Wilson writes in New Pathways in Psychology:


                    This is why people who have a peak experience can go on repeating
                    them: because it is simply a matter of reminding yourself of something
                    you have already seen and which you know to be real. In this sense, it
                    is  like  any  other  “recognition”  that  suddenly  dawns  on  you—for
                    example, the recognition of the greatness of some composer or artist
                    whom  you  had  formerly  found  difficult  or  incomprehensible,  or  the
                    recognition of how to solve a certain problem. Once such a recognition
                    “dawns” it is easy to reestablish contact with it, because it is there like
                    some possession, waiting for you to return to it.

                    During  my  talks  on  self-motivation,  one  of  the  questions  I’m  asked  most
               often  is,  “How  do  I  keep  this  going?”  People  say,  “I  love  what  I’ve  learned
               today, but I’ve often gone to seminars that got me motivated and then a few days

               later I was back to my old pessimistic self, doing exactly what I used to do.”

                    If I were in the mood to be blunt, I would answer the question this way:
               Why, if you love what you’ve learned about self-motivation, would you ask me
               how  to  keep  it  going  in  your  life?  The  person  in  this  room  best  equipped  to
               answer your question is you. So I’ll ask you, how will you keep this going in
               your life? I bet you could give me 10 ways you could do it. And I bet that if this
               were a foreign language you had to learn, you would set aside a certain amount
               of time each day to review it, to read it out loud, and to make certain you learned
               it. I bet you’d buy audiobooks for your car and even arrange small study groups.
               So the real question is this: is mastering the art of motivation as important as
               learning another language?


                    Once while I was attending a Werner Erhard seminar, I had some free time
               during a break so I wrote myself a letter. I put down all the ideas I wanted to
               remember from the seminar and I sealed them in an envelope. I took it home and
               a month later I mailed it to myself. When I opened it at work and read it, it was
               like a fresh experience all over again. I was so impressed by how effective this
               was for me that I employed the idea in one of my own seminars. I had everyone
               in the audience write out the important insights they’d received and what they
               intended to do differently in their lives from this moment on. When they were
               finished,  I  asked  them  to  seal  the  letters  into  the  envelopes  I’d  provided  and
               address the envelopes to themselves. I told them I would hold them for a month
               and then mail them all.


                    The  reports  I  got  back  were  remarkable.  Some  people  said  seeing  those
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