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I created, Dad and Mom made sure I   His passion for doing something   If you take yourself too seriously and
            learned to not make the same mistake   else made him a District Court   feel more important than others you


            twice. I wish I could say I have lived up   Commissioner and in his final years a   will find few friends or acquaintances
            to this lesson.                    member of the Caroline County Board   willing to interact with you. And the
                                               of Elections. He loved both of those   greatest joy that a person can have is to
            Too many people in today’s world
                                               jobs and he truly enjoyed all the people   be able to laugh at themselves. People
            continue to make the same financial
                                               he interacted with. He was a man of the   who take themselves too seriously, or
            mistakes and get themselves in deeper
                                               community.                        feel more important than others, can’t
            and deeper trouble. In many cases these                              laugh at themselves because too oft en
            are the same people who have failed to   Not everything he did was successful,   they are laughing at others and in many
            realize that if something sounds too   and there were many things he was not   cases being laughed at by others.
            good to be true it usually is.     good at. Lesson from Leroy number
                                               7 is, “don’t take yourself too seriously.”       All fathers are special, and mine was
            Dad always seemed to have some kind   Many people have summed up Leroy   especially so. Not because he was my
            of side job in addition to his career as   Rowe’s personality by saying. “He was   father, but because he taught me so
            a banker. He and my mother got their   Leroy”. He was a unique individual who   much about life. I am sorry that it has
            insurance licenses together by going   was not perfect in many ways. He was   taken his passing for me to realize this.
            to night school and he sold insurance   a diabetic who loved to eat sweets and   He was a tremendous person and I have
            to many of his bank customers. Lesson   he smoked until a few days before he   learned so much more about him from
            from Leroy number 5 is; “always have   died. He didn’t like many vegetables   the many hundreds of other people who
            some other job or vocation to fall back on   and he never exercised. He never tried   knew him.
            in case something happens to your main   to impress anyone and he rarely was
            source of employment.” I don’t think he   impressed by someone else, and you   “He Was Leroy”
            always had another “hustle” because he   always knew where you stood with him.
            was worried about his career. I think he   This is the greatest characteristic I think   Mr. Rowe is Vice President/Lending for

            honestly loved having something else   he had. He was genuine, he was Leroy.  Bay Capital Mortgage Corp. with offi  ces
            to do. But he always told me that he did                             in Easton and Annapolis. He has lived in
            these other things because he wanted to   And to me, that is the ultimate   Caroline for his entire life and supports
            be able to fall back on something in case   compliment and lesson to be learned   the county by volunteering in a variety of
            something did happen to his banking   from him. Dad enjoyed people and   ways. He currently lives near Greensboro
            career. And something actually did.  interacting and being around people. He   with his wife Jeanne and daughter Kelsey.
                                               could, and often would, talk to just about

            Whether he was supplementing his
                                               anybody about just about anything. He
            income through a complimentary
                                               was prompt to express his opinion but he
            business like insurance or he was
                                               always allowed others the opportunity to
            leveraging a hobby earning additional
                                               express theirs.
            spending money by selling shotgun
            shells, he was always looking for or
            enjoying some kind of activity for

            financial gain. With my mother he even
            owned a wholesale jewelry business that
            specialized in pins, tie tacs, cuffl  inks etc.
            with an Eastern Shore theme. Go fi gure,
            my father Leroy, the banker designing
            and assembling tie tacs for fun!      Because you deserve qqualified, llocal representation
                                                         when managing life’s important issues.
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