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Gay men and the relationship Business.

I could never take the gay relationship seriously in fact any relationship, I am

not a believer on the monogamy issue. I believe sex is an animal instinct and as
all we belong to an animal Kingdom we follow.

Our instincts and when it comes to male animal the testosterone is a powerful

hormone sometimes we can’t control.

Saying that if you have sex with a stranger doesn’t mean you love your partner
less, no sex is sex it is a action with chemicals reaction which lust from 5 – 60

minutes after you done you are back to normal.

The problem is how to tell this to your partner , you want to nbe honest but as

we all know been honest get you into trouble.

Your partner most likely to ge jealous and a small fight may escalate to a huge
one and the crack will appear. On the other hand if you do not say anything the

guilt is going to eat you inside out.

Again some signs will show and the questions will follow and suspicion will
arise and as we all know nothing is hidden under the sun, sooner or later your

partner will find out.

Then it may be a bigger problem as the trust issue will arise and more questions
will be asked and more lies will be told. Either way some ripple effect swill take

place from your action.

That’s why when you are in a relationship make sure to built the trust and
understanding between you and your partner, become friends and listen to their

problems and insecurities they have take them seriously.

When the relationship is strong you can overcome any problems you may face
with your partner, remember a relationship is hard work, you compromise and

you give some part of you to the other , talk about the problems do not ignore
them.