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Celebrating my mother turning 100 years young



          By Margaret Ewart           1919, the Reverend R. L.
                                      Williams accepted the call to
          My mother, Mary Jane Ewart,   serve at Shiloh Welsh
          nee Williams, was born in   Congregational Church in
          Slatington, Pennsylvania, on   Plainfield, N.Y., and the couple
          January 5, 1921.  She will be   left Slatington for West
          100 years old on January 5,   Winfield, N.Y.
          2021!                             When Mary was still a baby,
              Her mother, Gwladys     her family left West Winfield,
          Rhyffydd Williams, nee      N.Y., and moved to Oak Hill,
          Williams, was also born in   Ohio.  Here, The Reverend R.L.
          Slatington.  At that time, Mary’s   Williams ministered to three
          family was living in New York   Welsh Churches each Sunday,
          state, where my Taid, The   Nebo, Salome and Ty’n Rhos.
          Reverend   Robert   Lewis   He then served at Oak Hill
          Williams was serving at The   Welsh Congregational Church.
          Shiloh Welsh Congregational   All of the services were con-
          Church in Plainfield, near West   ducted in Welsh.  Mary remem-
          Winfield.  Gwladys, however,   bers that her father traveled by
          went home to Pennsylvania to   horse between the churches.
          have her baby, so that she         When Mary was 8, the fami-  Mary Ewart turns 100!
          would have the support of her   ly, now with a second child
          mother and other family.     called Lewis John, moved to   Welsh fairly well, but was not
               Our family Welsh Bible once   Carroll,  Nebraska.  The   entirely fluent.  When Mary was
          belonged to my Taid, Reverend   Reverend Williams had been   a child, her parents would
          Robert Lewis Williams.  In it, in   called to serve at Bethany   sometimes speak Welsh at
          his own hand, his date of birth   Presbyterian Church, another   home, in an attempt to have a   Margaret and Mary Ewart at Caernarfon Castle in 2017
          is listed as March 2, 1885, at   Welsh Church.  Before the fam-  private conversation.  But Mary
          Penrhyndeudraeth,    North   ily left Ohio, the Minister at   had been attending church ser-  of them, including Yale and   Festivals of Wales, held in dif-
          Wales.  Other records list anoth-  Oak Hill Presbyterian Church   vices conducted in Welsh, and   Case Western.  She chose Case   ferent cities in Canada or the
          er date, which I will include   ordained Mary’s father as a   had been immersed in Welsh   Western after learning their   U.S. every year. (Though
          later.  In a written account of his   Presbyterian Minister.  The   speaking communities for her   Master’s in Nursing Program   Mervyn had little interest in
          early life, also in his own hand,   family lived in Carroll until   entire life.  So when she was   was superior to Yale’s.  Her   learning Welsh, he did very
          the following information is   Mary graduated from high   still quite young, she remembers   tuition was paid for in exchange   much enjoy all the music and
          given.  Robert began preaching   school, as valedictorian of her   being about nine years old, the   for becoming a nurse cadet.  It   workshops that make up these
          at Glan Y Pwll Public School,   class of 17 students in 1938.   day came when her mother did   was an arrangement in which   festivals.)  Mary has taken for-
          Ffestiniog, in 1898 (Mary        Because his native language   not understand something her   she agreed upon graduation to   mal classes and attended weekly
          remembers being told her father   was Welsh, Mary’s father natu-  father said in Welsh.  As Mary   go overseas to serve in the war.   less formal Siop Siarads led by
          was known as the Boy        rally settled in communities   recounts the story, she became   But the war was over when   Robert Joseph Jones and others
          Preacher).  In 1902, he was   with significant Welsh popula-  exasperated and shouted “Mom,   Mary graduated so she began   for over three decades.  In fact,
          made local Preacher in Merthyr   tions.  Carroll was such a com-  he said….!”  So her parents had   work as a nurse specializing in   Mary still attends Robert’s
          Vale.  He came to Wilkes Barre,   munity, and Welsh was com-  underestimated Mary’s Welsh   tuberculosis first in Cleveland,   weekly classes today.
          Pa., in the United States in   monly used in daily life.  Each   language skills and from then   Ohio; then New Haven, Conn.      In recent years, I have also
          1906, and possibly worked there   Sunday,  The  Reverend   on, her parents knew Welsh was   and Lincoln, Neb.  Eventually,   begun studying Welsh.  I share
          as a trolley car conductor.  In   Williams conducted two ser-  no longer their secret language.   she began teaching in the   my mother’s love of the lan-
          1909, he entered Kingston   vices, a Welsh service at 1pm,    There were other benefits to   Masters of Nursing program at   guage, and we attend the local
          Seminary in Pa., went to    and a service in English at   speaking Welsh, Mary quickly   Yale University.         weekly classes together.  More
          Binghamton, N.Y., in 1912 and   7pm.  Because most of the fami-  learned.  It seemed the elderly     While teaching in New Haven,   recently, we have also been
          was ordained at the Welsh   lies in Carroll were farmers,   men in town were delighted   Mary met her soon-to-be hus-  attending weekly Siop Siarads
          Church in Nelson, N.Y., on   there were no morning       when the youngsters showed an   band, Dr. Mervyn Henry   and other events with the Welsh
          April 12, 1915.             services.  Everyone was too   interest in learning their native   Ewart.  He was a Canadian   Society of Western New
               Robert Lewis Williams was   busy with their morning chores,   language.  They kept candies in   chemist teaching at the Albany   England, and monthly classes
          the oldest of thirteen children   which had to be done, even on   their pockets, and any child who   College of Pharmacy, in   with Cymdeithas Madog by
          born to Lewis Williams, 1848-  Sundays. Mary of course, being   spoke to them in Welsh, would   Albany, N.Y.  After they mar-  zoom.  We’ve even found a
          1920 (known in his youth as   the pastor’s daughter, was   receive a piece as a reward.   ried in 1957, Albany became   number of enjoyable Noson
          Lewis Ellen Williams of     obliged to attend both services.     Candy was a rare treat in those   Mary’s new home.  Here, Mary   Llawens, in both North America
          Penrhyndeudraeth) and Jane        Mary’s Nain/grandmother,   times, and so, a powerful moti-  worked as head nurse at Albany   and in Wales.  By phone, Mom
          Williams, nee Davies of Bala,   was Mary Pritchard and came to   vator.               Medical Center.  She worked   and I practice speaking Welsh
          1850-1943.  Lewis worked in   Slatington from Wales at age 3        After graduating from high   for the National Board of   with our family in North
          the slate quarry at Blaenau   with her parents.  Mary’s   school, Mary attended Hastings   Nursing and eventually took a   Wales.  At home, we practice
          Ffestiniog and, after emigrating   Taid/grandfather was John R.   College. She worked her way   job as Bureau Chief with the   with each other, and with our
          to the U.S., he worked in the   Williams.  He also came from   through college with various   New York State Education’s   two Welsh speaking cats, Cath
          slate quarry at Slatington, PA.   Wales to Slatington as a child.    jobs.  Among them was assis-  Department  of  Medical   Fawr and Cath Oren!  Mary has
          Lewis and Jane’s other 12 chil-  Mary and John had eight girls,   tant to the secretary at the local   Licensure and Credentialing.   traveled to Wales seven times,
          dren were:                  all born in Slatington, where   Presbyterian Church and assis-  Mary and Mervyn had two chil-  most recently in 2017 when she
          Evan, Ellen, Lewis, Jane and   John worked in the slate quar-  tant to the pastry chef in the col-  dren, Robert and me, Margaret.   was 96 years old.  This was an
          Margaret Williams who all   ries.  We have the following   lege dining hall.  Her parents        After leaving Nebraska,   extra special trip because both
          stayed in Wales.            information on John and Mary   and younger brother by then had   Mary’s exposure to the Welsh   my brother and I joined her.  I
          Catherine (Kate), David (Dau),   Williams, married June 23,   moved to Steel City, Neb.  Rev.   language was understandably   had been to Wales once before,
          Grace, William, Sarah, Morris   1881, in Slatington, known as   Williams had a position as pas-  limited.  After so many years   but this was Robert’s first visit.
          and Owen Williams who all   Mr. and Mrs. John R. Williams,   tor of the Presbyterian Church   without using it, her skill in the   Mom and I were delighted to
          emigrated to Wilkes Barre, Pa.   and their children.     in town. In the summers, Mary   language suffered.  But after   introduce him to his Welsh fam-
              After being ordained, Mary’s      Their children were  Jane,   went home to Steele City, and   some time in the Albany area,   ily, and share with him our
          father, Reverend Robert Lewis   Martha, Mary, Elizabeth, Annie,   worked as secretary for the local   she found a group of like- mind-  beloved Cymru.  We stayed
          William’s first pastorship in the   Gwaldys (Mary’s mother) and   doctor.             ed Welsh language lovers called   with our family in Bala, and
          US took him back to Pa., to the   Marguerite Williams.  Mr.and     After graduating from   the Saint David’s Day Society.   even attended the National
          Bethel Welsh Congregational   Mrs. John R. Williams also   Hastings, Mary’s big dream was   She joined the group and attend-  Eisteddfod in which several of
          Church in Slatington.  Here he   adopted two orphaned baby   to travel to England, and contin-  ed various activities, including   our cousins were competing.
          met   Gwladys    Rhyffydd   boys.  Both boys died as     ue studying The Canterbury   some Welsh language lessons.      Welsh is a big part of daily
          Williams.  As the story goes, on   babies.  We have no record of   Tales by Chaucer.  She had fall-  In 1991, Mary retired from the   life in our house.  In fact, the
          the day he met Gwladys, Robert   their names or dates of birth.    en in love with the stories.  It   state.  Though she continued   covid-19 pandemic has resulted
          told those with him “I’m going   We don’t know very much   was 1942 though, and WWII   working as a consultant for sev-  in us having increased contact
          to marry that girl one day.”  He   about Mary and John Williams’   would prevent her from   eral years, she now had time to   with other Welsh speakers vir-
          did just that on Christmas day,   families in Wales.  We did find   embarking on this adventure.     pursue some of her other inter-  tually.  We now participate in
          1917, in Scranton.  In the   two first cousins of Gwladys        So, with a degree in English,   ests, among them her Welsh   Siop Siarads and other Welsh
          December 28, 1917, edition of   Rhyffydd  Williams   in   Mary took a job teaching at a   language skills.        events with people from all over
          the Slatington Newspaper, their   Holyhead, Megan Owens and   high school in Inavale, Neb.     Over the years, Mary has   the world.  Studying Welsh
          wedding notice reads “The   Gwladys Byrne.  We also      But because so many of the   attended many of Cymdeithas   together has provided for us a
          bride wore a gown of purple   understand the grandparents of   male teachers were off at war,   Madog’s intensive week long   healthy and interesting shared
          messaline and was attended by   Gwladys are buried in the ceme-  Mary was required to teach   courses in the U.S., Canada and   activity while staying safe at
          her sister, Miss Marguerite   tery of an abandoned chapel   many other courses in addition   Wales.  Most recently she   home.  I’m so proud of my
          Williams of town.  The groom   near Snowdon.             to English, like typing and   attended in-person the 2018   Mom.  She is a role model to
          was attended by his brother,         Although Welsh was the   History.  At the end of her first   Cwrs Cymraeg at Hamline   many, and a perfect example of
          Owen Williams of Wilkes     first language for both of her   year, she was sure that this was   College in St. Paul, Minn., and   how one is never too old to
          Barre.  The bride is the daughter   parents, Mary’s mother was also   not her calling.  That is when   the virtual 2020 Cwrs Rhith.   learn.
                                                                                                                                       th
          of Mr. and Mrs. John R.     exposed to many English speak-  she decided to go into nursing.   Mary and her late husband,   Happy 100  Birthday Mom!
          Williams of West Washing-ton   ers as a child.  As an adult,   Mary applied to a number of   Mervyn, also faithfully attended   I love you very much!  We’ll
          Street, town.”  Sometime before   Gwladys spoke and understood   schools and was accepted to all   the annual North American   keep learning together.


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