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                                                                    CoMMuniCatinG ethiCaLLY


                      the Leader’s ethical responsibilities

                      In addition to mastering the skills of effective and efficient leadership, as a leader you also need to
                      consider the ethical issues involved in leading a group. Because the leader is often called a “chair,”
                      CHAIR seems an appropriate acronym to help identify at least some of the characteristics of the ethi-
                      cal leader. As you reflect on these qualities, you’ll probably think of other ethical qualities that a leader   ethical Choice point
                      should possess.
                                                                                              You’re leading a discussion among a group of
                        ●  Concern for the welfare of group members: Leaders who are more concerned with their own   high school freshmen whom you’re mentoring.
                          personal interests, rather than with the group task or the interpersonal needs of the mem-  The topic turns to marijuana, and the students
                          bers, are acting unethically.                                       ask you directly if you smoke pot. The truth is
                                                                                              that on occasion you do—but it’s a very con-
                        ●  Honesty: Leaders should be honest with the group members by, for example, revealing any   trolled use, and you feel that it would only de-
                          hidden agendas and presenting information fairly.                   stroy your credibility and lead the students to
                        ●  accountability: Leaders should take responsibility for their actions and decisions, admit mak-  experiment with or continue smoking pot if
                          ing mistakes, and take corrective action when necessary.            they knew you did (something you do not
                        ●  Integrity: Leaders have integrity; they take the high road. They don’t lie or deceive. And they   want to do). At the same time, you wonder if
                          avoid actions that would violate the rights of others.              you can ethically lie to them and tell them that
                                                                                              you do not smoke. What is your ethical obliga-
                        ●  responsiveness: The leader must be responsive to all members of the group.  tion in this situation? What would you do?







                      Guide Members through the agreed-on agenda  As the leader, you need                Communication
                      to keep the discussion on track by asking relevant questions, summarizing the group   Choice point
                      discussions periodically, or offering a transition from one issue to the next. This    leader Guidance
                      involves following the list of tasks to be accomplished by the group as outlined in the   Members of your group are
                      meeting agenda and efficiently managing the amount of time allotted for each event.  not participating equally. Of the eight mem-
                                                                                               bers, three monopolize the discussion; the
                      ensure Member satisfaction  Members have different psychological needs   other five say as little as possible. What are
                                                                                               some of the things you might say to get the
                      and wants, and many people enter groups because of them. Even though a group   group into better balance?
                      may, for example, deal with political issues, members may have come together for
                      psychological as well as for political reasons. If a group is to be effective, it must
                      achieve the group goal (in this case, a political one) without denying the psychological pur-
                      poses or goals that motivate many of the members to come together. One way to meet these
                      needs is for you as leader to allow digressions and personal comments, assuming they are not
                      too frequent or overly long. Another way is to be supportive and reinforcing.
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                      empower Group Members  An important function of a leader is to empower other    “Director's Cut” at
                      group members—to help them gain increased power over themselves and their environment.   MyCommunicationLab
                      Empowerment will occur when you follow these guidelines as a leader:
                       ●  Raise members’ self-esteem; compliment, reinforce; resist fault finding.
                       ●  Share skills and decision-making power and authority.
                       ●  Be constructively critical. Be willing to offer your perspective and to react honestly to
                          suggestions from all group members, not only those in high positions.
                       ●  Listen willingly and eagerly. Acknowledge your understanding by appropriately nodding
                          or using such minimal responses as I see or I understand, ask questions if something isn’t
                          clear, maintain eye contact, and lean forward as appropriate.               For a discussion of self-esteem in
                       ●  Avoid interrupting to change the topic or to shift the focus to something else. When you   the workplace, see “Relationship
                                                                                                      and Work Esteem” at http://
                          interrupt, you say, in effect, that what the other group member is saying is less important   tcbdevito.blogspot.com. How is
                          than what you’re saying.                                                    your own work esteem?
                       ●  React supportively. Let other group members know that you appreciate what they are saying.
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