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376    CHAPTER 12               Marriage and Family

                                                        and whose parents are on welfare is likely to fall in love with and marry a
                                                        man who comes from a background similar to hers.
                                                          Sociologists use the term homogamy to refer to the tendency
                                                        of people who have similar characteristics to marry one another.
                                                        Homogamy occurs largely as a result of propinquity, or spatial near-
                                                        ness. This is a sociological way of saying that we tend to “fall in love”
                                                        with and marry someone who lives near us or someone we meet at
                                                        school, church, work, or a neighborhood bar. The people with whom
                                                        we associate are far from a random sample of the population, since
                                                        social filters produce neighborhoods, schools, and places of worship
                                                        that follow racial–ethnic and social class lines.
                                                          As with all social patterns, there are exceptions. Although most
                                                        married Americans choose someone of their same racial–ethnic
                                                        background, 8 percent do not. Eight percent is a lot of people.
                                                        With 60 million married couples in the United States, this comes
                                                        to close to 5 million couples (Statistical Abstract 2013:Table 60).
                                                          One of the more dramatic changes in U.S. marriage is the increase
                                                        in marriages between African Americans and whites. Today it is dif-
                                                        ficult to realize how norm-shattering such marriages used to be, but
                                                        they were once illegal in 40 states (Staples 2008). In Mississippi, the
                                                        penalty for interracial marriage was life in prison (Crossen 2004).
        Taye Diggs and Idina Menzel are                 Despite the risks, a few couples crossed the “color line,” but it took
        an example of the most common   the social upheaval of the 1960s to shatter this barrier. In 1967, the U.S. Supreme
        pattern of marriages between African   Court struck down the state laws that prohibited such marriages.
        Americans and whites.
                                          Figure 12.3 shows this change. Look at the race–ethnicity of the husbands and
                                       wives in these marriages, and you will see that here, too, Cupid’s arrows don’t hit
        homogamy the tendency of
        people with similar characteristics
        to marry one another             FIGURE 12.3         Marriages between Whites and African Americans:
                                            The Race–Ethnicity of the Husbands and Wives

           Read on MySocLab
                                                            425
           Document: Breaking
           the Last Taboo: Interracial                      400       White husband,            390
           Marriage in America                                        African American wife
                                                            375
                                                                      African American
                                                            350       husband, white wife
                                                            325
                                                            300
                                                            275                         268
                                                           Total in Thousands  225
                                                            250


                                                            200
                                                            175
                                                            150                  150         168
                                                            125           122
                                                            100                      95
                                                             75
                                                                               61
                                                             50     41  45
                                                             25  24
                                                              0
                                                                 1970   1980   1990   2000    2010
                                                                                Year
                                           Source: By the author. Based on Statistical Abstract of the United States 1990:Table 53; 2013:Table 60.
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