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                   At that very moment, the king analysed from her emotions, gesture appearance, body language, pitch of
                   the urge and finally the way she reacted and appealed. Hence he reached the conclusion that she is the
                   real mother of the child because her reactions whatever were natural.
                      But for the second one, her silence did not allow her to react sentimentally and neither emotions
                   were noticed from her facial index nor body language, nor gesture, nor from her eye contact and the
                   way she contested earlier, She was ready to sacrifice the child because the child did not belong to her.
                   Had she been the real mother ! she too, could have been reached as his real mother in the same natural
                   way and in the same fashion. Consequently the judgement of the king was appreciated by all the
                   sundary in the Court. Other live examples, I will cite as below :—
                      I will illustrate the case of Mr. Sanjive Awasthi who is presently working with RAW (Research &
                   Analysis wing) Delhi. I never predicted him to become an army officer. Sanjive Awasthi was a tenant in
                   C-151 Nirala Nagar, where I was residing for last 17 years. In the year 1994, he was called from
                   selection centre central Bhopal for CDSE entry. The few interview questions were asked by the
                   Interview Officer and responsed by him are as below :—
                      President :—Sanjive, are you in a rented accommodation or is it your own house ?
                      Candidate :—It is a rented one sir.
                      President :—How much do you pay ? Sanjive.
                      Candidate :—‘Six’ Sir.
                      President :—Sanjive, what do you mean by six ? It may be six lakh, six thousand, six hundred and
                   Rupees six also.
                      Candidate :—Sorry Sir, it is six hundred only.
                      President :—Sanjive,  when  questions  are  very  much  specific than why the answers are not
                   specific ?
                      Candidate :—Again, sorry Sir.
                      President :—O.K. Sanjive, Please don’t bother.
                      Candidate :—Thanks Sir.
                      President :—Are you studing in co-education ?
                      Candidate :—Yes Sir.
                      President :—Sanjive, how many girl friends do you have ?
                      Candidate :—4 to 5 Sir.
                      President :—Sanjive, either it should be 4 or 5 not 4 to 5. Your girl friends are not commodities,
                   even in case of commodities either it should be 4 or 5. Again you are not specific Sanjive
                      Candidate :—Sorry Sir,
                      President :—How many times you will take excuses saying sorry ?
                      Candidate :—Now, no more Sir.
                      President :—Tell me the kind of relationship you hold with them.
                      Candidate :—Sir, they are my made sisters. I invite them in my room for discussion.
                      President :— Then, what do you do ?
                      Candidate :—Sir, I ask them to prepare tea.
                      President :—Do they allow the door to remain open ?
                      Candidate :—No sir, it is closed.
                      President :—Sanjive, when they are your made sisters then why do you close the door
                      Candidate :—Kept mum.
                      President :—Yes Sanjive, please come on, keeping mum is not the answer.
                      Interpretation :—If you are caught with any fault, you may fumble, lose confidence, get stuck
                   up, break eye contact, deteriorate facial index and finally you may remain inconsistent, if you fail to
                   answer or possess followings :—(1) If your routine is not properly laid down, (2) Your academic
                   schedule is not consistent, (3) There is no proper lay out between your academics, hobbies, extra and
                   Co-curricular activities, (4) Your future aim; how much does it require to be achieved and how much
                   you are giving ? In brief, what is your aim ? Where you want to go ? Where or at what place do you
                   stand ? How much gap exists ? How much you are giving ? How much is exactly required ? Within
                   how much time you would like to achieve ? What means and method you will opt ? Now coming to the
                   answer of Sanjive regarding his made sisters. There is a difference between sister, cousin sister, made
                   sister and a girl friend. I have seen so many examples of made sisters establishing and converting
                   themselves as girl friend and later on getting married. Marrying cousin even is not an exception.
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