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how to college                            oh hi there...
                     by jch ft. students
                                                               Welcome to Janet Clarke Hall, a home and
                   1. Treat others with                   community cherished by many. We hope your memories
                   respect + care
                   2. Ask for consent +                      here will be full of friendship, laughter, fun and
                   only act with consent                    growth. Respectful relationships are key to this.
                   3. Call out + report
                   inappropriate behaviour                 If you see or experience a relationship or behaviour
                   4. Comply with College                   that isn't respectful, know that there are tutors,
                   policies (see below)                    Senior Staff and external supports to talk to about
                   5. Act as leaders, model
                   good behaviour                                 what's going on. You are not alone.
                   6. Act responsibly online +
                   on social media
                                                                    Recipe for Respectful
                                                                         Relationships





                                                                            Mutual trust and RESPEct
                                                                         Support and open communication
                                                                            Commitment and honesty
                                                                        Freedom to make your own decisions

                                                                                 serves 2+
                                                                              Intimacy optional






               Relationships
                (including                                               Feelings
                friendships)
              are no longer                   pain, fear               Being in a relationship with
             respectful when                  or harm               someone who hurts you physically,
                 there is...                                          emotionally or sexually can be
                                       Unsupportive /               extremely confusing. If something
                                        disrespectful                doesn't feel right, it's probably a
                                         behaviour                    good idea to talk to someone.

                                  controlling                                                     Guilt  numb
                                   behaviour                                        UNSURE        ANGER
                                                                     shame   ANXious     ISOLATED  confused
                                                                                            scared
                                                                         FEARful   DEPRESsed
                                                                                                     shock
                                                                               betrayed   WORTHLESS


                                                     Safe contact persons:
        What's the go with SAFE POlicies?       Amy Bongetti amy@jch.unimelb.edu.au   when/how do i use them?
                                               Adam Nelson adam@jch.unimelb.edu.au
         These College policies stand for: Sexual  Aidan Carter aidan@jch.unimelb.edu.au  You can read through them to understand
        misconduct prevention, Advice & advocacy,  Jack Tan jack@jch.unimelb.edu.au  your rights and obligations as a JCH
           Fair treatment, Equality and equity.  Josh McLeod josh@jch.unimelb.edu.au  student. You can also chat to a SAFE
                                            Bek Markey-Towler rebekkah@jch.unimelb.edu.au  contact person or external advisor to talk
        All people have a right to live, work, study                               about what 's going on and decide if you
        and socialise in an environment that is free   safe coordinator:             want to make a formal complaint as
         from Sexual Misconduct and Prohibited       Briana Ellis (9349 7122)         outlined by either/both policies
         Conduct regardless of their sex, sexual  deanstudies@jch.unimelb.edu.au     (e.g. to the Principal or to the Police).
         orientation, gender identity, immigration
             status and citizenship status.           external advisors:             You can view all current JCH policies,
                                              UMSU Sexual Harm Response Coordinators   including SAFE policies here:
           Sexual Harm Policy & Procedure
                                                 umsu-shrc@union.unimelb.edu.au
              Discrimination, Bullying &         Worklogic / Independent Mediators
               Victimisation Policy               scan QR code for contact details
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