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Final words

We had two happy chapters in this book with the engagement and marriage and
two sad ones in divorce and death. You know it never needs to go to divorce

unless there are very good reasons. A happy marriage is not hard work as the
long haired liberals say. By definition it is very easy to love your soul mate and

wanting to make sure that it works. Sort of a natural thing really!

Nothing in this book should prevent you from falling in love and marry the

woman or man of your dreams. It is the best feeling ever as I am sure you

know. No relationship is ever plain sailing for that would be extremely boring
and unnatural in fact. So there will be a few hiccups along the way. It is life you

know. My mom is an exceedingly clever woman and married 36 years to my dad
before he passed on at the age of 58 twenty years ago this year. Her advice for

a long and happy marriage is never go to bed angry and talk it out before you
fall asleep.

I want to leave you with that thought. Don't make the lawyers richer. Sort it out
and be blessed.

Regards,

K

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About the author:

K is a legal & risk management professional with more than 20 years’ legal &

management experience in South & West African jurisdictions. He obtained his B
Iuris & LLB in 1997 from the University of the Orange Free State (Bloemfontein,

South Africa) and was an admitted attorney in the High Court of South Africa
between 1998 and 2006 after which he worked as legal advisor & risk manager

for various companies in South Africa and Nigeria. Before that he was a member
of the South African Police for six years. K was awarded the South African Police

Medal for Combating Terrorism twice during his service years besides lesser
awards.

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