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where it is. A safety box at your bank (for once we won't call them your worst

               enemy) or even at your lawyers will do just fine. Update it all the time and do it
               today. You don't know when God will call you home.


               In  your  new  will  please  ensure  the  correct  passwords  are  available  for  your
               social  accounts  (full  names  and  links)  so  that  it  can  be  closed  and  deleted

               afterwards. I had a widow in tears the other day in my office because she kept
               seeing her dead husband on Skype for the computer logged in automatically. As

               a relatively elderly woman she had no idea how to get rid of it and my IT guy
               sorted it out for her.


               Leave emergency cash in that box for all your accounts will be frozen by law the

               moment  the  bank  finds  out  you  are  departed.  It  takes  a  couple  of  days  to  a
               week (I hope not more) before your insurance (life) policies are paid out.


               Please make sure they pay into your beneficiary account and not to your estate
               account which the executor will open. For once it is with the estate it will not be

               paid  over  to  your  family  for  months  if  not  years  until  the  estate  is  wound  up.
               Yes,  under  Laws  of  Estate  it  is  possible  to  make  payments  to  the  remaining

               spouse  and  children  but  most  executors  (especially  if  they  are  salaried
               employees of your worst enemy) will find this process much too much hard work

               and difficult. There is no need to take chances with them. This is another reason
               to have a Trust which is not affected by your death.


               You  must  understand  when  you  die  cash  is  needed  to  bury  you.  Yes  you  may

               have a funeral plan and in fact you should have one but it is often outdated and
               not  enough.  Update  it  please.  At  this  point  I  must  ask  you  to  disclose  to your

               wife  what  to  do  with  your  remains  and  don't  be  silly  as  some  say  "leave  me
               where  I  die or let the lions eat me."  That is not only rude but a stupid answer

               showing you are an idiot. We want to know if you want to be buried or cremated
               and where specifically. For health reasons if not public morals you cannot be left

               where you died!


               If your spouse died in a hospital they will keep the body at the hospital morgue
               until  you  fetch  it  meaning  your  undertaker.  They  will  also  give  you  the  death
               certificate.  It  is  where  unnatural  death  occurs  as  described  above at the police



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