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Chapter 6


               Death in the family

               This  chapter  is  not  about  will  and  estates.  For  that  you  need  professional

               assistance as it is quite important and I cannot really explain the estate winding

               up  process  here  for  then  our  book  will  be  another  200  pages.  What  are
               important  to  us  are  the  basics  and  that  is  to always update your will regularly
               and especially when something major happens like a new child or divorce.


               In  the  first  place  please  destroy  your  old  testament  (will)  physically  once  the

               new  one  is signed and witnessed to (two normal people above 16 years of age
               and none who stands to inherit).


               Secondly put a date on your new will and make the first clause always to recall

               and revoke all previous wills. It happens often that we have more than one will
               with  no  dates  on  it  and  it  needs  the  perception  of  Solomon  to  resolve.  Very

               unnecessary  for  few  lawyers  are  that  blessed  in  the  brain apartment (who is?)
               Whilst they argue your family suffers anguish  if not more.


               Stay  within  the  law  as it must be in writing on a piece of paper. Do not try to
               rule from the grave or be silly enough to make a video of yourself reading your

               will.  It  means  nothing  in  court  as  we  do  not  know  if  anyone  stood  behind  the
               camera point a gun at you. In very exceptional cases it may be followed but as a

               rule  it  won't.  Years  ago  we  had  something  called  a  "soldiers  will"  which  had

               almost  none  of  the  usual  formalities  and  could  be  written  in  the  dust  next  to
               your body and be unsigned.  This is no longer part of our legal system.


               Lastly, even if the law changed, sign every page and leave no gaps between the
               last page signatures and where the will ends. That can lead to someone writing

               another  clause  in  afterwards.  Be  extremely  specific  on  what  inherits  to  whom.
               Don't say my car but mention make and colour and registration and  who means

               full  names  and  whatever  else  needed  to  identify  who  you  meant.  No  insults
               please. It is silly.


               The  process  in  law  under  the  laws  of  succession  to  dispense  with  the  earthly
               goods is called winding up the estate. It can either be intestate (meaning no will



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