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Firstly it gives the spouses access to their partners bodies which is legalese for

sex. Law is boring for sane people but it does recognise that sex is an integral
part of marriage and this brings us to the question if it is possible to rape your
wife? The short answer is yes and in certain countries includes even consensual

anal sex.

In the old days raping your wife was not legally possible and unquestionably it
led to a lot of abuse. These days consent is king. If your wife says no then sir, it

is no. Forcing yourself on her is rape and you will be treated as a rapist whether
you are married to her or not. There is really nothing complex about this. No

means no as it should be.

The court will also look at your relationship at the time. When in a divorce or
estranged from each other (in the old days called divorced from bed and table)

your rights as husband does not stop automatically but you cannot force yourself
on anyone. I had cases where the couple got together again and then the

woman cries rape and my client arrested which is disgraceful behaviour.

My advice is to ensure that consent is always involved and remember a drunk or

drugged person can never give consent legally. Nor can anyone who is asleep as
also happened. I said it before but will repeat that it is common human decency

not to infect your loved one and you must inform her of any diseases you suffer
from before the marriage or you have sex. In this regard I must also clear a few

myths. Having sex with a virgin cannot heal AIDS as our witch doctors are telling

everyone stupid enough to listen in Africa. The CIA or other white men did not
create AIDS to kill the black man as is the rumour in Africa since the 1980s.
Such thinking is plain irresponsible and silly.

Much better ways exists to kill humans with bacterial warfare in case your

biology teacher failed to inform you. The last time that was used in war was by
the English Army against some indigenous American Indians 300 plus years ago

and the weapon a blanket infected with small pox. They also tested anthrax at
one Winston Churchill's persistence on a remote Scottish island much more

recently during World War Two. It is still abandoned and will be for hundreds or
years to come.

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