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TOPUCU Adult Faith-Based Workbook                                                                        Lesson 1: Part 2





 for a run or a swim or some other physical   desires. When it comes to your own personal   watching television for hours and hours on   through the grueling programs at Yale and
 fitness activity and as a result decided to   transformation this is a powerful tool. Write   end. Despite her lack of education, Ben’s   University of Michigan’s School of Medicine.
 skip that bag of greasy potato chips when it   a note to yourself. Put it in a strategic and   mother began to see that her boys would   He would later go on to become the very
 was offered to you? You didn’t want to take   visible place. In this note write down a   be nothing in life without a drastic change   first doctor to perform the groundbreaking
 all that hard work you just put in and ruin   reminder of the positive routine behavior   in this routine behavior. So she began to   surgery of separating twins who were
 it with one bad snack, right? That positive   you’ll commit to when you’re faced with your   limit the amount of TV they watched. She   conjoined at the head. And to think, it all
 behavior of working out, led to the positive   trigger, along with an affirmative statement   didn’t allow them to go out with their friends   started with the simple act of substituting
 behavior of skipping an unhealthy snack.   that will remind you of the satisfaction you’ll   until their homework and studies were   a television with a book.
 And just like that you’ve begun to develop   receive from that positive behavior.    done. She also picked up books from the
 yet another good habit. Now you’re feeling   Here’s an example:  library and required the boys to read and   True transformation happens when you
 better and eating better; you’re experiencing   give her written reports on a weekly basis   decide to make changes. And that’s what
 less guilt and have more energy; and so forth   “When I want a snack I will have almonds   despite her inability to read past a third-  this program is all about: Transformation.
 and so on. The habits build on one another   instead of ice cream. Almonds are healthier   grade level. Looking back, Doctor Carson   In the following lessons you will learn the
 and before you know it, you have a collection   for me and will give me the satisfaction that    admits that these changes in routine were   secrets and tools that finishers use to create
 of good habits that are leading to a better   I really desire.”  extremely difficult to deal with and for a long   good habits. But you have to get on board
 overall lifestyle. And it all began with a single   Put that note on the refrigerator. Put it on   time he and his brother were ridiculed by   and make it happen.
 building block habit.  your bathroom mirror. Put it somewhere you   other kids in the neighborhood because of   At the end of each of the seven lessons we
 will see if often. Will it feel a little weird at   their mother’s strict rules. But he would one   are going to give you a visual tool you will
 Now that you’ve done some evaluating of   day realize these rules were more than just
 the trigger and the satisfaction components,   first writing notes to yourself? Possibly. Will   rules; they were building block habits. Ben   need to memorize. This visual tool will be
 you should be able to identify some better   you have to explain to other people in your   found that reading and studying was a great   a constant reminder of that lesson. For this
 routine behaviors as replacements for bad   house why there are random pieces of paper   substitute routine that actually bridged the   lesson on habit change the visual tool is the
 ones. Now it’s time to take action! This is   stuck to the fridge? Sure! But, do it anyway.   gap between his trigger and his satisfaction.   word – Routine. Yes, just one word. Memorize
 what you need to do:  TOPUCU is not just about information – it’s   it and think about it every time you start
 about transformation. It’s not good enough   He developed a love for reading and in turn   engaging in a bad routine. Look at your
 to just know what to do. You need to do   a love for education. So when he decided to   wristband and remember – The Only Person
 what you know! Take Action! Take a few   pursue a career as a surgeon he already had   U Cheat is U. TOPUCU.
 WRITE IT DOWN!
 moments to examine your bad habit, the   the good habits he would need to make it
 In the Old Testament, the prophet Habakkuk   triggers, and the satisfaction associated
 is having a discussion with God about   with it. You must consider new routines that   "Do not be conformed to this world, but transformed by the renewal of your
 staying faithful and diligent in the moment,   can take the place of old, negative, routines.   mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and
 even though we can’t always see the end   You need to write that note to yourself as   acceptable and perfect." — Romans 12:2 (ESV)
 result. In Chapter 2, verses 2-3, the Lord   a reminder of what you have set out to
 replied to one of Habakkuk’s inquires with   do. This is small stuff that can lead to huge
 the following message:   changes in your life.
            NOTES:
 “Write down the revelation and make it plain   Before our lesson ends, you should hear the
 on tablets so that the herald may run with it.   story about a man named Dr. Ben Carson. He
 For the revelation awaits an appointed time;   wasn’t always Doctor Carson.
 it speaks of the end and will not prove false.    Ben Carson was raised in Detroit by an
 Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly   uneducated single mother who sometimes
 come and will not delay.” (NIV)
 worked as many as three jobs at a time
 The Bible supports the principal of writing   so she could feed him and his brother.
 down the promises we have from our Father   With their mother away at work much of
 and furthermore writing down our goals and   the time, the boys developed a habit of




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