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         Attraction into your life of circumstances, ideas, events and people that harmonise with your
         most dominant thoughts and desires then comes naturally. Remember:

                            “You become what you think about most of the time”.
         Five Essential Elements Of Goal Achievement

         You will have come across the mnemonic SMART if you have been introduced to goal setting
         previously. It is used extensively in training sessions and means that when setting goals they
         should be:
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         Make each goal SPECIFIC – not “I want to be richer” – how much money specifically £100,000 in
         investments and £50,000 in cash? What is rich to you may be totally different for someone else. “I
         want to end world hunger” is not a specific goal whereas “I see myself working for an
         international relief agency” is a specific goal.
         Set MEASURABLE goals. This is easy with goals such as weight loss or financial goals but “I want to
         be a better salesperson” is unquantifiable. What does “better” mean to you? “I am becoming a
         better salesperson who will meet and exceed the target of a 10% increase in the coming
         financial year is SPECIFIC and MEASURABLE.

         Goals need to be AGREED or ACTION-ORIENTED. “If you fail to plan, you’re planning to fail” and
         if you don’t take action, it will never happen.

         Decide what goals are REALISTIC. Realistic, does not mean something that you would ordinarily
         do – that is not a goal. If goals are not challenging, they don’t stretch you, the feeling of real
         achievement doesn’t happen, and you get bored easily. However if they are virtually
         impossible, you may become disheartened at your perceived lack of progress and fulfil your
         own prophecy of “I never achieve my goals.”
         There is nothing to say that you cannot become a millionaire, but to set a goal to be one by
         next Monday when you’ve got £5 in your pocket today is not realistic – (unless your numbers
         come up on the Lottery, and then that’s not a goal within your control, that’s relying on Lady
         Luck!)

         If you’re a 45 year old man, you will never be the youngest person to run the mile in under 4
         minutes, however fit you are – and someone’s already done that anyway. You could however,
         set a goal to run a mile 10 seconds faster than you have before.
         Goals need to be TIME-PHASED. Basically, you need to put dates next to when you want to have
         achieved your goal, and dates for milestones along the way. Be careful though, that the
         milestones do not become millstones around your neck. These target dates also feed into what
         needs to be done this month, this week, and today – and need to be written in your planner or
         diary.
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