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         What? Nothing in the fridge but a lemon!  You examine it in the palm of your hand. You close
         your eyes and you can indeed smell its zesty, clean, crisp fragrance. Doesn't it have a pretty
         lemon yellow colour? You can feel the texture of the lemon lightly with the pads of your fingers.
         Doesn't it feel lumpy?
         Now, squeeze it and feel the consistency. Smell it again. Hold it up to your nose and take a
         deep breath. Imagine you can hear yourself say, “Isn't that a pretty lemon? Doesn't it smell
         fantastic?”

         Now, I'd like you to, in your mind,
         take a knife from the drawer and cut
         a slice from the lemon. Take the slice
         and squeeze it until the juice is
         dripping down your fingers? Good.
         It's easier to smell the free-flowing
         juice. Now, take that slice and place
         it in your mouth, just in your mouth,
         not on your tongue.

         Doesn't it smell fresh?
         OK, do you feel the juices dripping
         on to your tongue? Great. Now, set
         the lemon slice on your tongue.

         Oooh, can you taste that tangy
         juice? Great.
         Now back to reality . . . What is happening in your mouth?
         Well, if you're like a good percentage of the people, your mouth is salivating. OR drying up.
         Either way, you are having a reaction to the sight, sound, smell, taste, and feel of the lemon.

         You know why? Your brain does not know the difference between what is real and what is
         vividly imagined!  Now, how can this help you?

         If you really take the time and effort to change your view of reality, your brain will put in the time
         and effort to make your reality become your view.

         And so it is with changing your perceptions. You won’t have to imagine lemons every time you
         want to substitute a belief, but this exercise should help you to see just how powerful your
         imagination can be.

                                       Perception
                                       Is the world really as you see it? Do you see a lovely young lady or a
                                       shrivelled old woman? The ear of the young lady is the eye of the
                                       old woman. This reversible figure shows how we can be given subtle
                                       cues which influence what we see.

                                       We tend to believe that our  perception or experience of the world
                                       is reliable, "Seeing is believing", but we may not be the objective
                                       observers we think we are.
                                       Our perceptions reflect our needs, expectations, attitudes, values
                                       and beliefs. We see what we believe. Research shows that rather
                                       than passively recording details we actively process incoming
                                       stimulation, focusing on some aspects while ignoring others.
                                       And so it is with your beliefs and thoughts.
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