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when a person leaves your life, what I am saying is that once you realise that the source of your love, joy and happiness is within you, it will help the healing
process dramatically.

Now, take another step in your journey to happiness. Apply the same principles mentioned above to the happiness that exists in your life. Pretty soon you will
realise that happiness, just like your love, is sourced within you and the feelings you assigned to them. Stop assigning happiness and love to others and you will
see happiness and love magically reappear in your life.

HEALTHY LOVE

People in healthy relationships have the following characteristics:-

1. They allow for individuality
2. They experience both oneness with and separateness from another
3. They bring out the best qualities in self and another
4. They accept endings
5. They experience openness to change and exploration
6. They invite growth in the other person
7. They experience true intimacy
8. They feel the freedom to ask honestly for what is wanted
9. They experience giving and receiving in the same way
10. They do not attempt to change or control the other
11. They encourage self-sufficiency of partners
12. They accept limitations of self and other
13. They do not seek unconditional love
14. They accept and respect commitment
15. They have a high self-esteem
16. They trust the memory of the beloved; they enjoy solitude
17. They express feelings spontaneously
18. They welcome closeness; risk vulnerability
19. They care with detachment
20. They affirm equality and personal power of self and other.

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