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The Truth About Self-Love:
True Love Knows No Self
Quite possibly, what can seem even core conflict of our life story is the main
more difficult than making peace with problem keeping us from happiness, so
others is the prospect of making peace we live as though resolving that core
with ourselves. We are burdened with conflict is our life’s purpose.
what we have done or not done. And
more deeply, many of us are burdened Underneath many of the recurring
with an identity where we believe we are themes or patterns in our life stories is
“wrong” or unlovable. So, it’s not just “I an unconscious assumption: If we want
have done something wrong,” but “I am to create the life of our dreams, then we
wrong.” That identity can be so deeply need to resolve what we believe is our
entrenched that we’re not even aware that core conflict, and to do that we need to
it’s present. This is what makes it seem be self-critical. “If I can just overcome
so hard to make peace with ourselves what’s wrong, if I can just fix certain
for things we have done. Part of the things about myself, then I can change”
challenge in making peace with ourselves (be happy, be loved, be successful). The
is a belief that our goal in life is to resolve assumption that the key to happiness is
our central conflict. We live as if the to fix things reveals another assumption:
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