Page 318 - Nuwaupian Rules...Preface-Chapters 999.1 - 999.2 - 999.3 - 999.4 - 999.5 - 999.6 - 999.7 - 999.8 - 999.9

– NUWAUPIAN RULES of the 24,000 Year Cycle for the Hereafter –

clockwise 3 times for the future of the family relationship. 12. The groom has had
a gold pass key seal made with a gold chain, the symbol of his bride to be, and
gives it to his father. The groom's father then puts the gold pass key seal around
the intended bride's neck and kisses her on her right then left cheek. She is to wear
it as a symbol of a fruitful, wealthy life ahead. 13. The bride's brothers, if any, are
his best men; 14. His sisters, if any, are her bride's maids. 15. They are married in
socks or bare feet as they start a new path in life. Shoes are a symbol of walking
out or departing in our culture. 19. Both families give gifts of things the married
couple will need in their future lives or household. 20. No one knows who gave
what or from whom. Names are not put on gifts. 21. Money can be given, but
again, no one claims how much or from whom. The reason is clear. 23. The
banquet can be held at shadow hour; much food, music, dance, and joy in
Nuwaup-u celebrations. 24. The groom must live with her family for two weeks
and she must live with his at this same time. This is not a must, but it is good to
get to know new family members. 25. The bride and groom exchange gold
wedding bands, which can also have stones, a matter of choice. 26. The wisdom
meeting of the 24 Elders, the 12 female elders meet with the intended bride, and
each whisper a word of advice. The 12 male elders do the same to the groom. Not
at the same place and time, but before the wedding; good advice, and be aware of
advice to help them in their relationship.”

*In Preparation For Marriage:

From paa Laraq Paa Ṫaraq “The Way” – “The Fooled” – v. 193-203

“193. His father and her father must speak on them, their ancestors, their family,
health, both physical and mental. 194. When the three men sit with mint tea and
talk of this young man's future, plans to this joining of families and what he is
bringing. 195. A young man should not have sex with a young Nuwaupian
woman before they are married and she should be 21 years or older. 196. And a
male should be at least four years or older than the female. 197. The male must
be able to support the female and her family, if they have offsprings. 198. The
mothers and daughters must sit and have mint tea and exchange conversation on
the female's family. 199. On the family's physical and mental health, on the
family's DNA, genes, mitochondrial DNA. 200. The young lady should be a
virgin and as should the young man, except for his Rites of Passage. 201. Yet,
men are told by their fathers about sex and may experience sex before marriage if
the father and son use this as a form of instructions. 202. Yet a young Nuwaupian
male is never to practice on a young Nuwaupian female. 203. This is a ritual
318