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280:	CREATING FALSE PANIC                                                           11
                       AND ARRANGING A
                       FALSE MARRIAGE IN
                       ORDER TO PREVENT
                       AN ABORTION

          ɳ	 Question

         In the course of my work with Agudat Efrat, the organization for pre-
         venting abortions, a case bordering upon danger to life was referred to
         me and I would like to hear a Torah perspective regarding the correct
         course of action.  

            I received a visit from a young girl who became pregnant from a
         lecher and they plan on getting married. The girl’s parents are utterly
         vetoing this plan. Her mother stridently declared that if her daugh-
         ter doesn’t abort the fetus and cancel the marriage she will commit
         suicide. From inquiries among members of the mother’s family it
         appears the mother’s threat is serious. It transpires that the brother of
         the girl’s mother committed suicide only two months earlier, so this
         history of suicide is a good reason to believe the mother’s threat is se-
         rious and that she will carry it out if the pregnancy is not terminated
         immediately.

            Shocked by this threat, the boy and girl had already made an
         appointment for an abortion. I called them in for a talk and after
         some persuasion I proposed an idea that might seem cruel but that
         succeeded, with Heaven’s assistance. I suggested that the girl break
         off contact with her parents and with her partner and that she travel
         far away and spend a few days living on her own in some undisclosed

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