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What is a leader and what is a dictator?

        Dictators…
        Depends on authority
               This is a type of leader that tells

        people what to do, rules with threats and
        orders,  dictates  and  never  ask  for  other’s
        opinions. We can say that they are a “do-
        this-do-that” type of leader.
        “I,” not “we, us, or our”              On the contrary Leaders are…
               They  can  also  be  someone  who
                                               Listener
        takes the credit even though it is a group      A good leader always has time to
        effort  or  done  by  their  colleagues.  They   listen  to  what  others  would  have  to  say
        wanted to take all the praises and be proud
        of  something  that  their  subordinates  did   before  talking  and  giving  advice  or   A  good  leader  decides
        for them.                              directions.  He  investigates  and  is  not   depends on the situation and their
                                               depending on hearsays.                 members.   They   have   their
        Controller                                                                    democratic-like   system,   and
               As  someone  who  depend  on    Enabler and facilitator                decisions  are  made  for  the
        authority, they are bound to be controller.      They  enable  you  to  grow  and   betterment  of  all,  because  they
                                               learn. They show you how to do tasks and
        They wanted the work to be done by their   just facilitate because they trust you enough   know how to meet halfway. They
        way,  only  because  they  believe  that  what   to  let  you  do  it  alone  but  unlike  the   know how to settle things and trust
        they know is the “best” for everyone.                                         every member.
                                               dictators, they will give you enough credit
        Tells people what to do                that you really deserve. They don’t own up
               This  is  connected  to  being   every  praise  because  they  know  the  hard   With   the   qualities   and
        authoritative  and  controller.  They  tell   work that was put up. They know how to   comparisons  that  we  enumerated,
                                                                                      what  are  you?  A  leader  or  a
        people what to do, not show them how to   appreciate everyone.
        do it.                                                                        dictator? Do you have what it takes
                                               Admits mistakes                        to  be a  good  leader?  Can  you be
        Always a know-it-all and aggressive           No man is an island and no one’s
                                                                                      one?  We  don’t  need  a  high
               They  have  the  “the-boss-is-me”   perfect,  and  a  good  leader  knows  that.   position to be a leader. We don’t
        mindset  so  they  think  that  they  know   They  know  how  to  admit  their  mistakes   need  high  ranks  to  earn  respect
        everything and they won’t admit mistakes.   because  leaders  always  have  room  for   from  our  colleagues.  We  can  be
                                               improvement.
        Talks more than they listen                                                   one right now. Let’s start now!
               Dictators  never  listen,  they  just   Develops people
        talk and order around. They stop to hear      Just like what we said earlier, they
        someone’s opinion because they think that   give you opportunities for you to grow and
        whatever they say is irrelevant.       learn. Every people need development and

        Only one opinion is shown, their opinion   a good leader won’t hinder your growth.
                                               Encourages others
        only
                No opinion is valid and relevant      Because they develop people, they
        except for their opinion. This is somehow   encourage you to do better in all aspects.
        connected to being a know-it-all.      Betterment not only for yourself only but
                                               for everyone.
        Respect is demanded, not earned
               As what mentioned above, being a   Respect others
        dictator  demands  respect.  They  wanted      Respect  begets  respect.  A  good
        you  to  respect  them  not  because  they   leader  respects  everyone  that  is  why  they

        deserve it, but because they think highly of   are respected too. They earned the respect
        themselves and you have to think highly of   they deserve.
        them.
                                                          By: Princess Dyan D. Rivera
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